Urgent: Does anyone know much about snapchat?

[loverage21]

There is this girl I am legally supposed to avoid contact with. I went to jail this past weekend in another state and it was a terrible experience.

 

I opened up my snapchat and clicked on my notification tab at the bottom and it automatically tried to resend an old message to that girl that failed to send a long time ago. A notification popped up that said "(name) failed to receive your message". I am assuming she blocked me.

 

I am worried she is going to get some message on the other end saying I was trying to send her something and I am worrying really bad about it right now. Does anyone know?

[GunslingerRoland]

Wait, wtf you went to jail for harassing her?

 

 

I know you like to ignore advice, but you need to get yourself HELP before you ruin your whole life.

[hasaquestion]

There is this girl I am legally supposed to avoid contact with. I went to jail this past weekend in another state and it was a terrible experience.

 

I opened up my snapchat and clicked on my notification tab at the bottom and it automatically tried to resend an old message to that girl that failed to send a long time ago. A notification popped up that said "(name) failed to receive your message". I am assuming she blocked me.

 

I am worried she is going to get some message on the other end saying I was trying to send her something and I am worrying really bad about it right now. Does anyone know?

 

Snapchat is a pretty erratic app. I think the only way you can guarantee it doesn't try and resend something without you telling it to is if you block and remove her.

[Michelle ma Belle]

This explains so much now. Wow.

 

How about you remove SnapChat and any other messaging app you have downloaded on your phone? You are your own worst enemy it seems.

[SoulCat]

A notification popped up that said "(name) failed to receive your message". I am assuming she blocked me.

 

I am worried she is going to get some message on the other end saying I was trying to send her something and I am worrying really bad about it right now. Does anyone know?

 

 

If she has blocked you, and by the sounds of it that's highly likely, I'm pretty sure she won't get any notifications that you've tried to message her.

That would defeat the point of blocking someone.

 

 

Be smart and remove her contact details from your My Friends list at the very least.

Better yet, uninstall SnapChat for the time being.

[scrapbooker]

A hospital will be so much better for you than a jail cell. I am scared both for you and of you, to be honest.

[loverage21]

Wait, wtf you went to jail for harassing her?

 

 

I know you like to ignore advice, but you need to get yourself HELP before you ruin your whole life.

 

This is not Alexa. This is another girl I lost my virginity to.

 

The app tried to resend a message against my consent.

[Qboro90]

Serious question.... Do you believe you need psychological help? Yes or no?

[loverage21]

Serious question.... Do you believe you need psychological help? Yes or no?

 

Yes I do, and I am seeing a counselor now.

[loverage21]

This explains so much now. Wow.

 

How about you remove SnapChat and any other messaging app you have downloaded on your phone? You are your own worst enemy it seems.

 

It tried to resend an old message without my consent

[Rejected Rosebud]

Yes I do, and I am seeing a counselor now.

It might help you if you show the counselor the posts you've put here.

[clia]

This is not Alexa. This is another girl I lost my virginity to.

 

The app tried to resend a message against my consent.

 

You drove hundreds of miles to see a teenage girl who has a restraining order against you? What were you thinking?

[ChickiePops]

It tried to resend an old message without my consent

 

How come you haven't deleted this girl (and Alexa) from all social media and from your phone? You should really eliminate their information from your life so that this cannot happen again.

 

And so you're not tempted to contact either of them intentionally either.

[loverage21]

You drove hundreds of miles to see a teenage girl who has a restraining order against you? What were you thinking?

 

 

She did not have a restraining order against me.

[Qboro90]

She did not have a restraining order against me.

 

Delete snapchat... Delete Facebook, delete Instagram and all forms of social media you have. Can you do that right now?

 

Youre going to send yourself to jail if you continud

[amaysngrace]

If she blocked you it won't show anything. She can't see anything you do and vice versa.

 

Glad you're in counseling. Good luck with that.

[loveweary11]

Just another chime in...

 

She won't see that unless you get the little filled in triangle next to the message.

 

That indicates received.

 

But good god... delete her from friends so you don't screw up and land yourself in jail by accident.

[clia]

She did not have a restraining order against me.

 

You said in your opening post that you legally have to avoid contact with her. If it's not a restraining order, then what is it? How did you end up in jail?

[SincereOnlineGuy]

This is not Alexa. This is another girl I lost my virginity to.

 

 

 

Uh, you do understand what "virginity" means, right????

[loverage21]

You said in your opening post that you legally have to avoid contact with her. If it's not a restraining order, then what is it? How did you end up in jail?

 

It is common sense because I got arrested for trying to communicate with her in the first place. Plus, it is likely part of the conditions of my bail that I don't talk to her.

[loverage21]

Uh, you do understand what "virginity" means, right????

 

Penis in vagina penetration for the first time...which was both of our first times.

[serial muse]

It is common sense because I got arrested for trying to communicate with her in the first place. Plus, it is likely part of the conditions of my bail that I don't talk to her.

 

Sorry - I've tried to follow this part of your story but I don't understand either. She doesn't have a RO against you; why were you arrested for trying to communicate with her in the first place?

 

Oh wait. Is she underage?

[loverage21]

Sorry - I've tried to follow this part of your story but I don't understand either. She doesn't have a RO against you; why were you arrested for trying to communicate with her in the first place?

 

Oh wait. Is she underage?

 

She was 16 and I was 20 when we had sex. She is now 17 and I am now 21.

 

But that wasn't it. She said she did not want a relationship and I was so lovestruck that I pursued her anyways and got in huge trouble

[serial muse]

She was 16 and I was 20 when we had sex. She is now 17 and I am now 21.

 

But that wasn't it. She said she did not want a relationship and I was so lovestruck that I pursued her anyways and got in huge trouble

 

And now there's a legal injunction against you talking/contacting her, but it's not a restraining order? Huh. I don't understand that, but moving on...

 

Look, loverage, I'm trying to understand your situation and it sounds to me like it's your parent's infidelity with his high school sweetheart that's really at the root of all this. I sure hope you've brought that part up in therapy. And maybe you need to talk to your father, too - I wonder if he has any idea how much that has screwed you up.

[ShatteredLady]

I read back through your first few posts. Did you mention that your parents committed adultery with their "first love" ex partners? I'm sure I read that & was surprised that no-one jumped on it. Also Aspergers? These things explain a lot.

 

My brother was a very emotional, obsessive person in his late teens, early 20's. I do understand. You can't force 'first love' onto unwilling persons just because you believe it to be of great value! Your feelings aren't important enough to be going to these extremes.

 

I agree with an earlier poster... Print out all of your threads here & give them to your doc. It's vitally important that he/she knows some of this information. Are you still having suicidal thoughts & actions?

 

I honestly believe that your problems are too serious to be managed on a forum. Keep posting. I hope we can help but PLEASE share the entire truth in therapy. You don't need to be suffering AND causing suffering like this!