2BHAPPY Posted February 4, 2016 Posted February 4, 2016 I started a relationship recently and just as soon as it was going great..the man starts to make excuses to cancel dates. We met about 5 months ago online and because he often has to fly we didnt much of each other the first 3 minths..ok only 2x but they were very long dates. Then a month ago he starts calling and texting me very frequently then he invited me to a very romantic restaurant, we spent the night together where we promised to be monogomous and in relationship, but no sex, then on our next date we had sex and the next and maybe a couple of times after that. We basically soent 2 weekends togerher and he jusr sweot me off my feet. He wanted to know everything about me and we even made plans to do some road trips and meet also our respective children, So the last day we spent together was 2 Sundays ago, we had a fantastic day together...and he even texted me to tell me what a great time he had. The following day Monday..he texted me to tell me he couldn't make it the next day Tuesday, but that he would see me the next Saturday which was a very special date he had planned for me. That Thursday he then cancels Saturday at which point I was upset. There was a Misunderstanding over something that happened and I texted him I told him off and broke it up with him, i told him off but then I later found out I had misinterpreted things and apologized. At that point I asked him if he wanted to break up with me and he said that he enjoyed spending time with me and wanted to continue. He had to travel on business and couldn't see me for next 2 weeks so we are texting back and forth and he did call me back once when I called him and we had a nice conversation. He told me he would always respond to my texts whether good or bad and he has been texting me back. He had a chance right there of ending it and he didnt. He did tell me that whenever I dont hear from him and I want to talk that I should do that. In the conversation we had he did say that when we go again out we don't have to have sex and that I put too much emphasis on sex..meaning I equate that with a relationship. He was the one making all the promises about relationship and being monogomous and trust...now its like he never said those things. I would have never slept with him if I didnt feel this was going to be a monogomous relationship. I am feeling as if this is the beginning of the end for us. Although he said that we would see each other in 2 weeks, I keep having this feeling that he will cancel once again with some lame excuse. I also noticed that he is constantly checking his online dating site were we met, so he must be meeting women. I feel so stupid that that I let the sex happen so quick, now he is not making me a priority in his life and I just dont know why he just doesn't tell me he is no longer interested. He responded to my last text this morning and now I will just hold off and not text him until he does...if he does at all. Do you see this as the beginning of the end as I do?
Scarlett.O'hara Posted February 4, 2016 Posted February 4, 2016 It is very hard to maintain a relationship with someone you can't trust. Add to that the cancelled dates, and it doesn't sound like a very satisfying relationship. I can see why you are starting to have doubts.
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