Unsure if flirting

[IDid911]

I'm 17 and this girl is 18. We're both Seniors in Highschool. I've known her since midway through 10th grade, when I transferred to the school I'm currently in. I've had a crush on her the entire time I've known her, but was in a longterm relationship until about a month ago, when we broke up for personal reasons. Anyways, now I'm single for the first time since I've known her; the only problem is, she has a boyfriend. I really can't tell if she's flirting with me or not. She'll openly talk about sex with me, and implied a few days ago that her relationship with her boyfriend was rocky at the moment. Just today, we were sitting talking at lunch and another guy comes over that we don't know very well, and starts talking to us. He says something along the lines of "I could really use a beer right now", and she turns to me and says low so that he can't hear "I could really use some vodka and some great ****ing sex right now". I REALLY didn't know how to respond to that, so I kind of just laughed it off. Afterwards though, she asked me if I did drugs, to which I responded no. She said "damn, was thinking about hooking you up with one of my boyfriend's friends". Now I'm really confused; if she was saying that she was trying to hook me up with a GIRL, it's obvious she doesn't like me like that. However, it's equally likely that she meant if I was into drugs she'd hook me up with a friend of her boyfriend's that dealt drugs, and I'm not sure how I would go about asking which one she meant without sounding like I actually AM into drugs. Anyways, really ****ing confusing situation and I'm not sure how to handle it at all. Even if she does like me, idk what I should/would do next, I don't want to be that ******* that tries to "steal" her away from her bf. Would really like some advice, thanks

[SaveYourHeart]

Honey, that girl is no good. Stay away from her. If she is flirting, don't doubt that if y'all ever get together that she'll flirt with someone else. If she's not flirting with you, then she wants you to drink underage and do drugs and that's no good either. Forget about her, when you get to college you'll find a way hotter chick with a good head on her shoulders that would never think about offering you drugs.

[IDid911]

Honey, that girl is no good. Stay away from her. If she is flirting, don't doubt that if y'all ever get together that she'll flirt with someone else. If she's not flirting with you, then she wants you to drink underage and do drugs and that's no good either. Forget about her, when you get to college you'll find a way hotter chick with a good head on her shoulders that would never think about offering you drugs.

 

For the record, I have no real problem with underage drinking; kids will be kids, and while I more than likely won't do it, I'm not about to shame someone for drinking before 21. As for the drugs part, I know for a fact she wouldn't even touch weed, let alone do any of the hard ****. So no, she's not trying to get me to do drugs lol. She was just asking if I did, presumably because her ex-drug dealer boyfriend has a friend who still deals drugs.

[SaveYourHeart]

She should have never asked that with the intent to hook you up with a dealer as it is. Many of the kids from my graduating class are dead because of their alcohol and drug usage, so I'm sorry if I'm a little stern on that matter. Regardless, this girl is no good and I wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole. Just take care of yourself and make sure that the decisions you make are educated and made only for your benefit, not anyone else's.

[preraph]

That girl is too sneaky and graphic to be anything but a troublemaker who hurts people. Maybe she picked it up at home with bad parents or something, but right now, until she maybe matures years from now, she's just going to bring chaos, so you should avoid her.