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How to tell if a guy is inexperienced?


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Hello everyone,

 

Is there anyway you can tell if a guy is inexperienced? To my knowledge this guy I am interested has only been with one girlfriend (he went to a religious college). He is single.

 

Have any of your significant others been inexperienced? How did you get them to open up?

 

I've noticed a bit more communication from his end, but it is still not like every other guy I've dated.

 

Background: He does have a position in the church, but he is not the pastor. Body language shows he is interested.

 

My friends keep telling me he's probably shy or embarrassed if he's inexperienced, especially with me being a couple years older.

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What difference does it make? If he treats you well that is all that matters.

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What difference does it make? If he treats you well that is all that matters.

 

 

Just to help with having him open up more.

 

One of my friends from my program said it took a while for her boyfriend to open up and that she often had to initiate the conversation (as he was inexperienced at the time).

 

Also communication is important in any relationship.

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Not everybody is an open book nor do they want to be. If you think you are going to convince a young man to bare his soul to you & admit that he's not the biggest Casanova going, you are probably mistaken.

 

A little mystery is a good thing. Let him have his dignity. he will trust you with his deepest darkest secrets after you have proven trustworthy which takes a great deal of time.

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This has just been different than any other type of guy I've been interested in. It was strange at first I originally did not like him. However, as I got to know him I started liking him.

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