mona.lisa Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 Hello everyone, So I am really confused. I've known this guy for some time now. Because we lived quite far apart, our conversation has mostly been through texting. We texted a lot actually and I was so sure that he was interested in me. He was quite flirty and we made plans to hang out and so on. On more than one occasion I thought he's intentions were quite clear. The only thing I worried about at that point was whether he wanted something serious or just physical. I also told him that I liked him and that I would like to get to know him better. After I told him this, he asked if we could meet the following weekend. Which we did. However, nothing happened that weekend. He didn't make a move...nothing. So I thought I make it clear and told him again that I do really, really like him. He acted really surprised, but didn't say anything back. He paid for the place we stayed at, even though i offered him to pay my part. Before we parted he said he really enjoyed it and we should do that again. I can't figure this out. I have no idea what this was supposed to be. Can anybody help me?
preraph Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 So is the complaint he didn't sleep with you or put moves on you? He could either be taking it slower like a gentleman or not have been that attracted to you. His follow-up actions should clear that up. If he stays in contact without you prompting him and wants to make plans again. Otherwise, it's a dead end.
smackie9 Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 You had to get a room? Stop wasting your time on long distance. usually nothing really gets off the ground, you hardly will ever see each other, and the time you do spend together will just be sexual. It's a dead end.
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