PieceTablo Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 Hey everyone, Long story short: I'm a gigantic flirt. I flirt with both guys and girls (even though I'm heterosexual), unattractive and attractive people, and people I am interested in and am not interested in. Kinda started doing this when I got friendzoned by a girl many years ago, and I really wanted to avoid that. Now it's also very much about being funny and livening up the conversation, since I often get bored by people. However, recently I was getting a bit worried about a couple things. I am still relatively young (early 20s) but I will be working in a pretty prestigious career path and I was worried that such behavior will be construed as immature? I don't want to be considered as the immature flirt...but on the other hand, the flirtatiousness has become a big part of me (a part that I like) so I don't know if I really want to lose it. Am I worried about nothing? Or is it something I should "grow up" about?
d0nnivain Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 Continue to be true to yourself just be more circumspect at work. Tone it down in professional settings. 2
JustGettingBy Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 I agree with the above posters. Limit flirting to time away from work and you'll be fine.
loveflower Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 I have the exact opposite problem. I can't flirt.
preraph Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 At work, you need to totally drop the flirting, because it can ruin you. But you can keep up the friendly banter, which will serve you well.
Recommended Posts