sergeyrar Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 Hi, I met a lady over tinder- and yesterday I've asked her out. She agreed that I pick her up at 9pm. This morning I've sent her an SMS asking for her address- and she said she won't give it to me and laughed. So I told her I'll pick her up at city entry... she laughed some more - but still I don't have her address. How can I get it? Thanks! 1
CTRL C Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 Don't ask for her address. If she wants you to pick her up, ask her where she'd like to meet. Let her decide if that is her home address or some public marker. Or, perhaps you're assuming you pick her up when really she'd rather drive herself. You two haven't met. I wouldn't give out my home address to a stranger either. However if she wants the date, she needs to be a little more helpful on setting up the details. 2
Redhead14 Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 Hi, I met a lady over tinder- and yesterday I've asked her out. She agreed that I pick her up at 9pm. This morning I've sent her an SMS asking for her address- and she said she won't give it to me and laughed. So I told her I'll pick her up at city entry... she laughed some more - but still I don't have her address. How can I get it? Thanks! As a woman, I would never give a man I've never met from OLD my address. If we were meeting for the first time, I would be sure to have my own car/transportation also. It is unsafe to give someone you've never met your address (even a guy). It is also not a good idea to get into his car a)for safety reasons and b) if the "date" didn't go well, you'd be stuck in the car on the ride home with them. 3
SolG Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 Don't ask for her address. If she wants you to pick her up, ask her where she'd like to meet. Let her decide if that is her home address or some public marker. Or, perhaps you're assuming you pick her up when really she'd rather drive herself. You two haven't met. I wouldn't give out my home address to a stranger either. However if she wants the date, she needs to be a little more helpful on setting up the details. Exactly. If I haven't met you and verified your identity you don't get my address. Neither am I getting in your car with you.. So completely nix the lift thing. For a first meet we pick a public venue and meet there. Safety first! 1
Author sergeyrar Posted February 3, 2016 Author Posted February 3, 2016 Yeah.. you are correct. Maybe up until now I was dating some irresponsible women, who actually 90% of the time did give me their address. 1
Satu Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 Meet her at a mutually convenient place of her choice.
bigbaby Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 I don't understand why she keeps laughing. Is it a joke and she doesn't plan to go out with you at all or what?
CarrieT Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 The laughing means you are being played with. Move on. More than likely, if you arranged a mutual meeting place, you would be stood up.
Author sergeyrar Posted February 3, 2016 Author Posted February 3, 2016 Not sure about that, but will find out soon. Hopefully not- I'm assuming she's not gonna flake on me because all our conversations were kinda funny... so she probably got carried away a bit
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