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What does it mean when your ex bf unblocks you?


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I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months in april of last year because the relationship wasn't going anywhere. We have not talked since then. We were both seniors in high school and it was our first real relationship. We never held hands or kissed or anything (I think he was shy). I just got tired of waiting around and I broke up with him out of frustration. We had been friends all throughout high school and got close senior year. The break up was messy and bad. He doesn't know how to handle hardships in life, he doesn't really have baggage like I do.

 

I feel like the break up was mostly my fault and I still regret some of my actions but it was like my first heartbreak. I took it a lot harder than I thought and i was the dumper! After the break up he went back to his old friends that he would constantly complain about to me and he went to prom with another girl. We have a mutual best friend (he's been my friend for longer) but they are very close. I recently anticipated seeing him at a concert and I told myself that I would be nice and I was. I tapped him on the shoulder and said "hi!" and then walked away. I noticed that he unblocked me on twitter and instagram (not yet on facebook).

 

I know I'm reading a lot in to it but I wish we never stopped being friends. I really valued him as a friend. I've mostly moved on but I still think about him sometimes but for a long time I thought he'd just forgotten about me. Does this mean he hasn't? He's not like any typical guy. His actions generally mean something because he is not confrontational at all. That's why I feel like it means something?

 

I promised myself that I wouldn't ever reach out to him, it is his turn. Because if he does then I know we should be friends again.

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It's for attention. Classic sign. Social availability.

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