AdamJones Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 I've dated this girl now for a few months now and I was too nice. So now she runs the show. She isn't open to hear my opinion on things like she was before. I am still not her bf and i know this is an uphill battle. We still are being intimate and talking, but she has backed away. I believe she is still but I need to build my attraction back I know. Any tips on taking my manhood back from her would be great haha
smudge21 Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 Advice I have been given in regards a similar situation is to back away, let her start to wonder about you and the effort (or lack of it) she's doing for you right now. I'm betting you've done all the work and been happy to do so - yep, same here, and because of that, they sometimes back off, get lazy, don't have to do much and know we are always there. If they're not making any effort then they're not truly involved. As hard as it can be to take a step back, it is often the right thing to do. 3
Author AdamJones Posted February 2, 2016 Author Posted February 2, 2016 ive become a friend with benefits pretty much. she would be a cool as friend as she was before. she acts like we could be something but i dunno. she calls txts everyday.
PogoStick Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 You might try reading Way of the Superior Man. It's a little new-agey but it holds some truths too.
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