ashley_bryan Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 (edited) I was seeing this guy for 5 years since I was 19, I am 24 now. He is 18 years older than me. He has always been romantic but when I talk about other guys, like my friend, he gets very mad even though its just a friend. Then he tells me "he doesn't like it" (after we have sex) and then calls me non stop and I get really confused. He has been emotionally abusive to me for a while, putting me down when I don't things he wants to, like go places he wants to go. He demands sex whenever he takes me out to dinner or buys me something. He also tells me to do bare intercourse and that he wants a family, but I am not ready for a family yet. I recently stopped contacting him and want things to be over and done with but he wont stop contacting me and now hes offering me money, an allowance to continue dating. My cousin said he is trying to bribe me now. and when I tell him I don't want to have sex with him, he tries to force me into it. What should I tell him and should I leave him for good? Its hard because ive been seeing him for 5 years now, but I cant believe hes trying to bribe me Edited February 2, 2016 by ashley_bryan
ExpatInItaly Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 Stop taking his calls. Stop responding to his messages. Block him from your phone and any social media he is on. Period. if he ever tries to force himself on you physically, phone the police. This guy is the definition of a creep. 1
Zahara Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 What a creep. Block him. Change your number if you have to and tell your family to stop interacting with him as well. 1
smackie9 Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 Send him an email, outlining details of your relationship, the abuse, etc, then tell him to no longer contact you. Keep this email and any further correspondence he has with you. Then get a new cel number, close down all social media. If you want to continue with social media, use a false name and photo so he can't find you. Delete/ block him, and never respond. If he messages you, offering money for sex, you now have proof that he is soliciting for sex...and that's against the law. You can use that against him if this ever goes to court. That's why I say keep all his messages....if he ever threatens you, like he is going to kill you, or he gets physical with you, you can get a court order against him. You shouldn't be seeing him....so stop it or nothing will hold up in a court of law when he rapes you.
Author ashley_bryan Posted February 2, 2016 Author Posted February 2, 2016 Guys, why do you think he is trying to bribe me? I told him id never accept money to date and he said "well I will buy you anything you want if you date me" I think he is a control freak or something??
Redhead14 Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 Guys, why do you think he is trying to bribe me? I told him id never accept money to date and he said "well I will buy you anything you want if you date me" I think he is a control freak or something?? He wants to have you for sex PERIOD. It doesn't matter why. It's just wrong and you should put as much distance between you and him as possible. He's treating you like a prostitute. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 Guys, why do you think he is trying to bribe me? I told him id never accept money to date and he said "well I will buy you anything you want if you date me" I think he is a control freak or something?? Yes, is certainly a freak. In more ways than one. That and women his own age probably won't go near him...for very good reason. Ugh. He's essentially propositioning you to behave like an escort. Dates for cash. Do not have any further contact with this man,
Zahara Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 Guys, why do you think he is trying to bribe me? I told him id never accept money to date and he said "well I will buy you anything you want if you date me" I think he is a control freak or something?? Using cash to buy your attention. Yuck. Control freak or whatever he is, just stay away from him. No need to break your brain trying to figure him out.
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