Blaugrana Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 Alright, so my ex and I broke up two months ago. We've been together for 4 months and she decided that she wasn't ready to be in a relationship in the time-being. She had too many personal problems in her life and she couldn't deal. After two months of NC and declining her proposal to be friends she had a long talk with me and decided she wants to start a new page and make things right this time. She claimed she couldn't live without me in her life. What should I do?
The Poster Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 I'm a hopeless romantic, so my advice would be to go for it and see what happens. Your relationship wasn't very long so maybe she realized what she had and what could be and had a change of heart. How do you feel though? Is it down thing you really want?
Radu Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 You did not say how long you two were together and if you agreed with the breakup ... was it amicable or not ? What kind of stuff was in her life ?
Paradigm Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 In my opinion, any girl who says she "can't live" without someone is dependant and wants validation.. She needs to be her own person and love herself before she dates anyone. It's up to you if you want to be with someone needy. You also said she had personal problems in her life, and her seeking comfort like this can only mean it didn't get any better.. But if you two didn't fight, I'd say go for it if you feel its the right thing.
smudge21 Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 Do you know what the personal problems are? If not, then you have to wonder if they're going to be used as another excuse to back away again. Basically if she does have commitment/relationship issues then they need dealing with. Bottling them up won't help anyone. It would definitely be something I'd want to talk to her about in the early days as it was what tore you apart last time.
Toodaloo Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 4 months and she can't live with out you = DRAMA LAMA! Nah Do not go there. Run away.
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