Author Slimsavvy Posted February 4, 2016 Author Posted February 4, 2016 Never met his family, I was supposed to meet them 3 different occasions, but as always, something came up. 1
Phenx Posted February 4, 2016 Posted February 4, 2016 I have not met her, but she knew considering we were 'facebook official'. But I'm also thinking that because most of his profile was privatized maybe he had it where I could see it and not his friends and fam. Because we never spoke outside of him being on the phone once and hearing her talk in the background. Gosh, everything is just getting so much clearer! This is very strange. Definitely not normal behavior. So you two were on fb with status of in a relationship together? Sounds like he may actually be living with his sister and dating other women and you are like 3rd or 4th. Or maybe his wife/gf he lives with is not on facebook or something. Either way, no offense but I am definitely questioning this guy (and you too) about going "Facebook official" when: 1. You are not in a real relationship. 2. You haven't even been to his place. 3. He out of nowhere drops off the face of the planet. etc etc. Like what is going on? Anyway you need to get your head on straight and so does he (although that's no concern of yours IMO). Sounds like you are seeing the light now though. Good luck.
SandraTempleton Posted February 5, 2016 Posted February 5, 2016 It's so easy to hide things on facebook from different people. You set up filters so someone can't see what you post, if you are in a relationship, and other huge red flags. I have a friend who found out shortly after marrying her husband that he had a second facebook entirely devoted to meeting other women. He would be in the bathroom for long periods of time (messaging the other girls) and she didn't find out until she looked at his phone one day and saw all of the messages. The level of deception was that high. You will know if a guy wants to stick around if you meet his friends and family in person. Any sort of excuses as to why he can't meet should tell you what you need to know. You are not a priority for him and there's probably a reason.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 5, 2016 Posted February 5, 2016 Never met his family, I was supposed to meet them 3 different occasions, but as always, something came up. You're so much better off without this guy. His actions are screaming that he's not single. 1
RySant Posted February 5, 2016 Posted February 5, 2016 He told me he lives with his sister in a house they bought together..... "Sister" Good gracious, girl! Are you still with him? Please say no.
Author Slimsavvy Posted February 8, 2016 Author Posted February 8, 2016 Good gracious, girl! Are you still with him? Please say no. Oh no! We are not. 1
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