Brando Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 I got a phone call from a random number. It was my ex's best friend/roommate. We were good friends while we were together, but I considered her a part of my no contact. I deleted her number and didn't know it was her calling. She asked to stop over, I couldn't help, but to be curious. She borrowed $500 and then proceeded to tell me "her roommate (my ex) misses me a lot, but has just been going out and partying all the time now." The money is not a big deal because I know she will pay me back. I just text her and told her I don't want her to contact me again and to respect me moving on, but to only text me when she gets paid so I can give her my mailing address to mail a check. Seeing her and listening to what she said set me back pretty badly at the moment. NC has to be everyone!!! I was doing so well. My ex was dead to me!!! Hate set backs!!! Frustrating, anxious, unhappy....
foam12 Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 You might want to consider giving her your bank account number and tell her to transfer it or deposit it, so there is no communication other than money showing up at a random time. Otherwise you will likely be where you are today with the next call. 1
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