When It Just Feels Right When You Kiss Certain People

[Reitteg813]

Random thread, didn't know where to put it. But its something I've always found interesting and just wondered why.

 

But ever noticed when you make out and kiss certain people it just feels right. You two just go together well and its just so much more enjoyable and feels better than compared to others. Went on a date with a girl back in March and it went amazing, made out at the end for a good 10-15 seconds and was one of the best kisses yet and everything I mentioned above. And I know she sure as hell enjoyed it cause when I pulled away after a while her eyes stayed close for another like 3-4 seconds.

 

But then theres those other people you kiss and its just meh, not much there, doesn't feel as good and just right, not much to it. Last two girls I was with were like this. But I wasn't as attracted to them. To me they just looked okay. So that could be it.

 

I just find it interesting so is it more of them being a good/bad kisser, lip size, level of attraction or how sometimes two people just click?

 

What are your thoughts?

[carhill]

IME, more the overall experience of their presence and kissing being a part of the expression of that experience, as well as touching, embracing, the whole smash.

 

Everyone experiences it uniquely. When two people happen to match up, pretty cool.

[iDrumKing]

I actually have a post up right now about an experience I had the other night with a girl. We kissed at a party but I didn't really feel the cliche "spark". I think it could be various things such as the environment, your one state of mind, and pretty much the emotions leading up to the kiss.

 

Do I think it's a deal breaker? Nah. But it's awesome when you get good vibes from a kiss.

[thebig-guy]

I'd say it depends how you feel about them, are the feelings sexual? Or romantic?

 

I think if you have very strong feelings about them their kiss is going to feel better than anyone else regardless of physical features.

[Reitteg813]

I actually have a post up right now about an experience I had the other night with a girl. We kissed at a party but I didn't really feel the cliche "spark". I think it could be various things such as the environment, your one state of mind, and pretty much the emotions leading up to the kiss.

 

Do I think it's a deal breaker? Nah. But it's awesome when you get good vibes from a kiss.

 

Don't think I'd call it a deal breaker but I think its fairly important. So maybe. It must mean something. Don't think it's the environment. Ive felt it with girls at a party, in bed, making out after a date in the parking lot, when I walk a girl to my door to say bye, in the kitchen, anywhere really. Cause the last girl I was seeing we were cuddling on the couch and we were kissing a bit and I didn't feel it, and if you're not going to feel it cuddled up on the couch in the dark then I don't know where you would.

 

Emotions leading up to the kiss I could definitely see. Cause like I mentioned before, the last two girls I wasn't as crazy about as most girls I get with. They were just okay, and I didn't feel it with either of them.

[smudge21]

I definitely believe that a kiss can mean nothing or mean everything, and it all comes down to the person and how you feel about them. I know there's been a few (the one who brought me here years ago) that when we finally did kiss, it was after a long time of getting to know her, the person she was (or who I thought she was... ahem) and therefore when the kiss happened, it meant so much. I reckon too the more time it takes to happen, the longer the build up, the more you feel it.