Apparition Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 After reading a lot of your stories I've noticed quite the majority of dumpee's are contacted by their dumper. How were you contacted by your ex? What did they say? What did you say? Why do you think they contacted you?
Josh_7798 Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 My ex messaged me via Skype after I stayed NC for a couple months. They wanted to 'be friends' and came to me with some needless problems which she could have easily solved herself. She continually messaged me for the next few days, but also said that 'she missed me' and that she will 'never find someone like me again'. I did break NC after she spoke to me again, but I kept things brief and didn't really engage in conversation much, after a while I slowly said less and less until she finally stopped messaging me, and ever since we've not spoken. I think she messaged me as she missed me, she missed my presence and that I could calm her down and cheer her up, I guess she should have thought about that before ending things poorly! 1
DarkHorizon Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 Mine only e-mailed me on Christmas Eve to tell me she was feeling horrible that I was spending the holidays alone with the cats. It wasn't condescending as it might sound; it was actually quite caring and sweet, but still, it hurt because it was true - I did spend the holidays alone with the cats. and I was only alone because she left me. 3
266696687 Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 Mine messaged for over a year persistently. He tried everything to get me to talk to him or be friends. Eventually I had enough I was NC for the majority of the year and in the end I changed my number to prevent further contact. I still have no idea why he tried so hard to maintain contact over such a long period. 1
jen1447 Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 Mine only e-mailed me on Christmas Eve to tell me she was feeling horrible Keywords. 2
Ajen Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 Mine contacted me to say he had feelings for me and had been thinking of me. We got back together but it didn't work out. 1
shadyp Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 I have practiced nc for a week now. He emailed last fri and fb me Sunday. Seem to be evening time-9:30pm. Guessing he'd done all he needed for the day and wanted some tlc. I'd love to reply but actually have sod all to say. Worried I'd start a argument (me ranting at him) so I'm keeping away. 1
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