creyente7 Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 No one probably remembers me here but I was a very active member a year ago. I was going through a really hard breakup. I can't believe it's been this long since that breakup. Im ashamed to say that I never really got over my ex, she was my first love and although I was heartbroken for months I still have this deep feeling towards her. We are thousands of miles apart but I sometimes tell myself that if somewhere down the road my ex and I meet again, the connection will still be there and possibly get back together. I've met so many girls this past year, hooked up with alot of them. Never found the same connection I had with my ex, I guess that was the problem. Im trying something new, which is giving a girl a chance. I'm talking to this one girl now I met at starbucks. I've been on several dates with her and appreciating every part about her. I think she might be the one to break the curse. I was afraid Ill never be able to love again but I can see it coming soon. No sex yet, that's not what I'm after this time. We kissed for the first time 2 days ago after 3 dates. Took her to the very top of the mountains where we could see the whole city, and kissed her under the moon. It was romantic and I felt some type of way after that kiss. Even my fitbit knew I felt something, she saw my heartrate after that kiss and we both laughed. I was so cold and bitter to all the girls ive met in the past, didn't feel any way about them, treated them like materials. I felt horrible because i had to cut them off. I didn't want to lead them on. Anyways not sure why I'm typing this, I guess it's to let people know that if you are heartbroken now and it feels like you'll never find someone again. Think again. That time will come. Sometimes you can't just keep waiting for it. You have to let it happen. I can honestly say that even though I like this girl so much, It wouldn't have happened if I didnt let it happen. I gave her a chance and finally opened up.
Confused Guy23 Posted February 9, 2016 Posted February 9, 2016 This is good to hear I'm going through a breakup where my ex has been leading me on. I knew the relationship couldn't last but I stayed in it due to low self esteem. Do you have any tips about getting back out there?
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