qq2016 Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 I have seen this guy for a couple of months but things didn't work out I think he is a womanizer. I always said that he just wanted sex Then in yesterday's texts, he said that "believe what you want, but I am going to have a girlfriend soon, and I will take her out for dinners, make her dinners and have a family with her then get married with her, since you always think I just want sex" Then I responded as "good luck with your new girl". He hasn't texted me back since yesterday. Did he just want to make me feel bad or he is having a new girl soon?
preraph Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 I hate to say it, but if he's saying that to you, I think he's being a jerk and saying yes, he will be a good boyfriend, but not to you. I also think he thinks you are too suspicious or are expecting too much commitment too soon. He's not talking about someone from right now, though. Just be careful that you don't confuse setting standards and and boundaries and expecting people to live up with them with unfounded suspicion and jealousy.
Redhead14 Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 I have seen this guy for a couple of months but things didn't work out I think he is a womanizer. I always said that he just wanted sex Then in yesterday's texts, he said that "believe what you want, but I am going to have a girlfriend soon, and I will take her out for dinners, make her dinners and have a family with her then get married with her, since you always think I just want sex" Then I responded as "good luck with your new girl". He hasn't texted me back since yesterday. Did he just want to make me feel bad or he is having a new girl soon? Did he just want to make me feel bad or he is having a new girl soon? If he was trying to make you feel bad -- did it work? Take that power away from him by not feeling bad and accepting that he was not the guy for you. If he is a womanizer, feel bad for the next girl not yourself. he is having a new girl soon? -- Sure, he probably will. So what? If anything, he's trying to make you run to him because you're afraid someone will snap him up. Don't do it. You gut is likely correct, he's a womanizer. Stop responding to him and don't reach out to him. Let it go.
Author qq2016 Posted February 1, 2016 Author Posted February 1, 2016 I hate to say it, but if he's saying that to you, I think he's being a jerk and saying yes, he will be a good boyfriend, but not to you. I also think he thinks you are too suspicious or are expecting too much commitment too soon. He's not talking about someone from right now, though. Just be careful that you don't confuse setting standards and and boundaries and expecting people to live up with them with unfounded suspicion and jealousy. He has been a jerk and said a lot of bad things towards me. No he probably won't be a good boyfriend because he is a womanizer. When I hang out with him he just couldn't keep his eyes from women, sometimes he would turn his head back to look at some women. He knows what I want from a man, that's why he said that But I admit I am too suspicious.
Author qq2016 Posted February 1, 2016 Author Posted February 1, 2016 Did he just want to make me feel bad or he is having a new girl soon? If he was trying to make you feel bad -- did it work? Take that power away from him by not feeling bad and accepting that he was not the guy for you. If he is a womanizer, feel bad for the next girl not yourself. he is having a new girl soon? -- Sure, he probably will. So what? If anything, he's trying to make you run to him because you're afraid someone will snap him up. Don't do it. You gut is likely correct, he's a womanizer. Stop responding to him and don't reach out to him. Let it go. He just texted me last week. Now I have the answer that all he wanted was just a hook up. But he sent me mixed signals and given me hope. He said his birthday is coming soon several times;he would be moving to a new place and wants me to check it out, telling me that he didn't just want sex... After the sex was done he did want me to stay overnight and seemed sweet, but after I left he seemed cold... 1
Redhead14 Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 He has been a jerk and said a lot of bad things towards me. No he probably won't be a good boyfriend because he is a womanizer. When I hang out with him he just couldn't keep his eyes from women, sometimes he would turn his head back to look at some women. He knows what I want from a man, that's why he said that But I admit I am too suspicious. He has been a jerk and said a lot of bad things towards me. I am too suspicious he would turn his head back to look at some women It stops being suspicion when it gets confirmed . . . 1
d0nnivain Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 What he said in the text was just to make you jealous. However, the way he treated you or at least how you felt about it while you were together is important. If you weren't happy & you always thought his motives weren't pure, then you are right to move on. As others have said, let him go & don't look back.
RySant Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 He just texted me last week. Now I have the answer that all he wanted was just a hook up. But he sent me mixed signals and given me hope. He said his birthday is coming soon several times;he would be moving to a new place and wants me to check it out, telling me that he didn't just want sex... After the sex was done he did want me to stay overnight and seemed sweet, but after I left he seemed cold... LOL. I can't believe you gave in. Sigh, smh. Sometimes, we cause our own downfall.
Author qq2016 Posted February 1, 2016 Author Posted February 1, 2016 What he said in the text was just to make you jealous. However, the way he treated you or at least how you felt about it while you were together is important. If you weren't happy & you always thought his motives weren't pure, then you are right to move on. As others have said, let him go & don't look back. Yes I believe my gut feelings. This guy is too womanizer for me. When we just began dating, he said he liked me so much but he still had the interests to check out other women and texting other girls
Author qq2016 Posted February 1, 2016 Author Posted February 1, 2016 LOL. I can't believe you gave in. Sigh, smh. Sometimes, we cause our own downfall. Agree. lol I know I was being stupid. Maybe was too desperate... But I would let it go and forget about his birthday
Author qq2016 Posted February 1, 2016 Author Posted February 1, 2016 Why does it even matter? Of course it matters. If he is having a new girlfriend, I would totally stop seeing him I know he will contact me in the near future again, I'd just ignore him
IronZ Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 What are you texting your ex for? Leave that trash by the curb where it belongs.
aquietgirl20 Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 Of course it matters. If he is having a new girlfriend, I would totally stop seeing him I know he will contact me in the near future again, I'd just ignore him Sorry that you had this experience. Learn from the worst as they say What kind of mean things did he say to you?
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