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Hi guys this is my first post!

 

I need some advice,

 

I met this young woman very briefly one day as she works for my sister and i popped in quick to get something and then left.

Can't say i really noticed her but still found her interesting enough to "pop around" when possible.

 

I found out she was in a relationship and didn't pursue the issue up until about 2 or so months ago, when my brother in LAW asked me if there was someone and what I thought of this young woman working with his wife/My sister.

 

I said she's great but, she’s seeing someone who's she's been with for about 2 years now (she's21 the other dude's about 23 I think)

 

And he told me that he's messing her around allot and she wasn't really happy. Around that time they broke up.

 

HELL YEAH?! Not quite

 

OK so about a month went by and i "popped in" about 1nce every week during lunch when possible just to see her.

 

Over a Saturday i went to help build some stuff over at my sisters house and my brother in LAW tells me bad news "They are back together again"

 

AS a result i kinda backed off abit (not that i was really pushing it before)

 

This past Saturday we were at a fashion show she was there aswell as my sister was an exhibitor.

We got chatting as we were sitting next to each other, and it felt comfortable to me atleast i think she did 2, I do get the feeling she's putting up her guard abit and at times, why do you guys think ??

 

 

Afterwards i found out she could be engaged to this guy (I’m not sure about that as I would think my brother in LAW would have told me)

 

The day after i hear again she's really Pi**sed off with her BF because he messed something up again when being drunk or whatever.

 

The point i wanted to get at was i really like her and it hit home on SAT evening,

 

What can i do to get her? What should i do?

I want her to know i like her but without making her uncomfortable after all she's working for my sister who doesn't know how i feel.

 

i have a feeling, i hope atleast because they called it quits once it might happen again ?

 

What do you think?

 

Thanks

Posted

Leave it. She sounds like she has other things on her mind right now - you'd only be a rebound.

 

If she's single for a couple of months and starts to get over this guy, reconsider. Otherwise, move on.

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