iphone_user1 Posted January 29, 2016 Posted January 29, 2016 I used to be on the OLD thing a year and a half ago. I've been into many dates using that social media and had fun a lot. I've started again with OLD, but now it happens to be like this... -Boom match -First convo -Second convo (luckily) -Next day I get bored with that girl for some reason (it does not matter if she's hot, nice, talkative, outgoing or whatever) -Match again and the cycle repeats LOL If I get to see a girl on a date, it's because it (the set-up) happened really, really quick. Lately I feel really lazy when it comes to get to chat/speak on the phone, I just get bored within the first few days, when years ago I used to have a lot of dates and have much fun. 26 is my age.
smackie9 Posted January 29, 2016 Posted January 29, 2016 try something different like going out and meeting women irl. 1
Author iphone_user1 Posted January 29, 2016 Author Posted January 29, 2016 try something different like going out and meeting women irl. Yeah, that works better. I'm just curious about the change in my mind about OLD
AMJ Posted January 29, 2016 Posted January 29, 2016 You're like the majority of men online. There's too many options, you're always wondering if the next girl is better than the one you're talking to. And you never take the time to meet them in person, to get attached in a deeper way, so all of your interactions are superficial, casual, non-engaging. Force yourself to go on one date per week- it's not that hard. Chemistry in text is never going to be enough to sustain anyone's interest. Humans aren't wired that way. We need the physical. 1
Recommended Posts