Author L3ANNE Posted January 29, 2016 Author Posted January 29, 2016 I'm going to kick him out and I know he will have to partly be in my life whether I want him to or not something I'm going to have to come to terms with I guess.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 29, 2016 Posted January 29, 2016 A bit of tough love: You do not need to have someone else looking after you. Yeah, it's nice and all, but you chose to become a mother. That means you need to also be adult enough to look after yourself The most you can actually demand from this man is support for your child. He's never going to be the boyfriend you want him to be. And you won't ever be able to understand it because you're not wired the same way he is. It's going to be a heck of a lot more heartbreaking to stay with someone who isn't committed and cheats. He's not going to change, and there's no magical answer you haven't found. Because it's not about you. It's about him and his choices. So you really only have two options: a) accept it or b) leave him 1
SincereOnlineGuy Posted January 29, 2016 Posted January 29, 2016 I know it's just hard I love him I can't picture our life without him. I don't want to be alone living on my own with my son I've only just moved out from my mums into my own house for the first time I've never been in this position where I have no one to look after me. C'mon, you just aren't thinking clearly about the big picture. I am reminded of a youngish, married woman I once heard on a talkshow, who said: "I married him because he had ten thousand dollars" Think of where you would like to be in, say, 25 years... and then recognize that your chances of getting there, with this guy, are near zero.
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