Rejected Rosebud Posted January 30, 2016 Posted January 30, 2016 It is a little concerning that you keep posting bad things about the guy and then deciding they didn't matter. If they mattered enough to post about them here it seems like they matter to YOU quite a bit especially since 2 or 3 times in the 6 or so weeks you've even known him you have said you are going to call it quits. But at the same time exchanging "iloveyous" nonstop throughout the days. It sounds like a really bad start. 6
DevotedBaker54 Posted February 1, 2016 Posted February 1, 2016 I’m so sorry that was his reaction! It’s hard enough to trust someone with your fears and insecurities from the past, and I can definitely understand your feelings right now. Maybe he couldn’t relate to your situation. I think girls and boys are taught to deal with bullies in different ways when they are young. Boys are taught to fight back and girls are taught to ignore it. It’s hard to ignore the insults of others and most of the time, young girls let it affect them. Have you talked to him since your conversation? Maybe you could mention that you were confused by his reaction and response. If this is how he reacts to your past, then maybe you two can talk about what you expect out of your relationship. Whatever you do I wish you the best! You deserve someone who loves you for who you are!
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