Orije Posted January 29, 2016 Posted January 29, 2016 My girlfriend and I made plans to hang out Friday all week and talked about it since we will finally have alone time. Her friend messages her to ask if she can make cupcakes together on Friday since their friends birthday is on Sunday and its the only day they can. So instead of her coming to my house i will go to hers to do that. I felt sad and a little bummed out, not sure if thats a bad thing since i was looking forward to it. she said i was looking forward to just the sex and i said to not make it sound one sided since we both wanted it. Other than that she hung out with a childhood guy friend who is her best friend and she says is a brother to her. I was off so instead of hanging out with her I let her hang out with him since they havent hung out in awhile...After they hung out she asked if she can come to my house on Saturday to be with me and i said yes. She said should would have to ask her mom to see if its alright cause the snow was bad in my part of the city. She immediately said if she isn't hanging out with me on Saturday that she will go to her guys friend house to hang out with him. For some reason i got extremely upset and jealous cause i wanted to be with her and see her. I asked her why she didn't just ask for me to come hang with her at her house instead of making plans with someone else. She replied that it was a lot of gas and i've been driving to her house a lot and it isn't fair since she culdn't come to my house. I asked if theyre going to be hanging out more often because i don't see her much because of school and work. She replied with that she has friends to hang out with too. I went for a little drive to get rid of my frustration and felt a bit better. Was i in the wrong for feeling this way? Your advice will help lots, thank you! (:
Arieswoman Posted January 29, 2016 Posted January 29, 2016 Orije, You can feel anyway you want, your feelings are your business ! However, I don't think that's the question you are really asking. Now I really don't get all this "hanging out" business. Maybe it's a North American thing or maybe I'm just old but it makes no sense to me. If you're really interested in this girl then why not start dating her? Take her out somewhere. Or are you just using her for casual sex? How old are you both BTW ?
Author Orije Posted January 29, 2016 Author Posted January 29, 2016 I'm 21 and she is 19. Also she is my girlfriend and we have been together for 9 months now. When i say hanging out that means them getting together to catch up and talk about life and whatever she does with her friends.
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