2005tahoe Posted January 29, 2016 Posted January 29, 2016 Ok, So I met this girl on POF, we have talked to each other for about 2 weeks and went on 2 dates. We click, great conversation, attraction is there, affection is there. I told her that I hold true to my values as far as sex and told her that I will not be involved in it until I am in a very serious relationship and she respects that. Anyways, some things that I have noticed are she asked me if I was more of a texter or do I like phone conversations. I told her a mixture of both but i lean more towards texting as I am on the phone all day at work and usually tired of talking by 6pm.. This has caused a small issue. She wants me to talk almost every free moment that I have outside of work, when I do call her and cut it short bc I have things to do at home she throws the sad card out. Also, this is the same action with hanging out, I live 25 minutes from here and she wants me to come after work and after the gym, I think that she wants to see me more than I do her, I have been independent for a while now and I need to adjust to this, I told her that I cant possibly see her during the week as I get off at 6pm and go to the gym until 8pm. I dont want to be a jerk and tell her bc I am a straight up person and say what on my mind, I dont want to ruin it either b/c she has alot of qualities that I like. We havent made it to hanging out at each others place, I am more reserved about bringing people to my apartment that I just met. Just looking for some advise, please?
Popsicle Posted January 29, 2016 Posted January 29, 2016 Just chill and don't stress about it, unless she tells you that it's a problem for her.
lilmissjava Posted January 29, 2016 Posted January 29, 2016 Stage 5 clinger? So early too. I would speak with her about it, and if she stomps her feet about you living in a world outside of hers, then you will know what to do. 1
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