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I kind of knew this would happen. It had only been a day since we spoke and she text me twice. One was her explaining how she feels, she told me she feels "broken" and how conflicted she has been with everything in her life since what happened to her (sexual traumatic experience). The way her text was written it was as though she expected a response so I text her back and told her I'm sorry she feels that way and explained how I feel, too.

 

 

I'm not sure what to do at this point.

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Nothing.

 

Next time she texts, immediately reply "Your message could not be delivered because the recipient has blocked your number."

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You're no longer stroking her ego and she wants to know you'll still respond when she comes a-calling. Her text is just her talking about herself and her feelings, all about me me me. What about you? Doesn't she even care? Everyone has a past, some of us have bad pasts, but if we let those pasts dictate and control our future then we shouldn't bring other people down with us. I'm guessing she dumped you so she made the decision. Don't react to her breadcrumbs and cries for attention. If she wants you back, she'll do whatever it takes to do so, but a text about her feelings isn't it. Stay strong.

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You need to stop getting sucked back into this cycle.

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Right before you cut off all communication, suggest to her that for her own good, she should go and talk to a therapist instead of you. Tell her that you can't help her, but a therapist might.

 

Then be gone.

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It's none of her business how you feel. You need to keep this to yourself from now on and only tell people who actually have your best interests in mind. Her best interests are for herself and that's what matters to her.

 

Her contacting you means next to nothing. It may take you time but you will eventually see this. Best thing you can do now is disappear and protect yourself to move on.

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