ConfusedInOC Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Originally posted by Lil Honey I also think that self-esteem has a lot to do with it. I think that some women need a boyfriend in order to feel valued, in order to "show the world" that she is lovable, in order to avoid being alone . . . It works the same way for men with the "nice guy" syndrome. They need a woman's approval to validate themselves.
Marshbear Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia Its a strange catch-22. Women want to be found sexually attractive, but they don't want to appear to want it too much, lest they look desperate or 'slutty'. But... its imperative that you show you want them - you just have to work on how you get that point across. You may get caught in this routine: Man wants to get in a woman's pants. Woman wants man to get into her pants. Man goes about the business of getting into said pants using a tired line that he thinks is sexy. Woman says "you just want me for sex" Man says "I don't want you for just sex" Woman says "What?! You don't find me attractive enough to have sex with?!" Man says Some of this is 'tongue-in-cheek' but... Women want to be found sexually attractive, but in such a way where she feels that she is unique - she won't fall for tired old lines, but if you work those tired old lines into something tailor made for her she'll be more likely to be receptive. If you use the tired old lines or come off as some horny dude who will f*ck just to be f*cking someone, then you are a cad and will get turned down (unless she's looking for a random hookup herself). If you use tailor-made lines to show that you want to f*ck her, and only her, then you are 'romantic'. If you don't use lines at all, you'll be stuck being the "friend guy". Good Post LB.
Weird Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Originally posted by WantanS4 Understood............ As for playing the game.......... i don't...... never have............. there are other things more important to deal with/think of/spend time doing. Agreed. I'd chop my nuts off before I ever wasted my time playing some silly ass "game" that prolly dumbs down those who do it. I wish I had all the free time people spend playing this "game"
whichwayisup Posted June 8, 2005 Posted June 8, 2005 Great post LB. Agreeing with the others and yeah! What you said!
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