WantanS4 Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Given some recent events... I've decided to twist everyone's mind around a little...... just for the sake of arguement (and boy do I love making enemies... pfff....) Why don't women get it??? Seriously..... as intuitive of creatures as they are........ why don't they look past all of it??? Those supposedly cute, sexy, funny guys (which I think are starting to look more like women these days... but that's a totally different topic) that hit on them are the actually undressing her as they stare..... yet the girl appears to be taking his approach as purely honest and plutonic. I don't get it... and my head hurts from scracthing it so much pondering the question... "why?"..... For example............ how about I take the approach any 'normal' guy would when he approaches a woman.......... "Hey.. what's your name... wow... pleased to meet you..... hmmmm......uhmmmmmm yeah... i agree <looks down at her breasts>....... ohh... yeah.............. mmmm hmmmmmmmmmmmm .... <looks down at her breast again>............ right......... ahahah.. your really funny............ wow....... your amazing...... <looks down at her breast yet again>........... right......... definately.......... yeah........ <looks down at her breast again>............. yup yup...... <getting bored now>........ hey can I call you sometime?" Do women not get this??? I mean.... come on....... wake up!!! Someone please explain. (Oh no.... here come the flames)
moimeme Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 as purely honest and plutonic Since we haven't yet observed life on Pluto, I don't think we can speak to the habits of the natives Women quite consciously use sex to appeal to men. But since women aren't 'supposed' to be overtly sexual, you hear the 'what? me sexy?' routine. Life, Wantan, is about sham. A series of shams, games, pretenses, and disingenousness. You either buy into it or you don't. But if you don't, you end up treading a fairly solitary path and you have to get used to it.
Author WantanS4 Posted June 7, 2005 Author Posted June 7, 2005 Good answer...... so do you buy into it??
moimeme Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 See my avatar? (ducks and runs) No. I haven't patience with it. Not interested in people who do it either.
TMonkey Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Good God, of course they get it. you think women aren't completely aare of what guys are doing? The last post is right, it's all a sham. Someone said to me once "When you first meet someone, it'snot really the two of you meeting, it's your lawyers meeting". Which is exactly right. Everyone is palying the game. girls look like they "don't get it" because they play beter than we do.
Marshbear Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 It is because they are flattered by his attention. Peace...
Author WantanS4 Posted June 7, 2005 Author Posted June 7, 2005 Okay... good... so women to get it...... and they know 'what's up!'.......... so why do they turn around and FLAME THE SHIZNIT out of us???? when they are playing the other shoe/foot/role in the tango???
scarlyjones Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Yeah,....its like all our "meetings" for the FIRST time,...take place in a movie. We are acting. Guys are trying to win over the leading lady. We,....are playing the damsels in distress. I would have used a stronger female role model like Lara Croft................but have you SEEN Angelina Jolie act??
Author WantanS4 Posted June 7, 2005 Author Posted June 7, 2005 So why then do women openly BASH men when they do it? Why do they clump the blame on us?
Illusion24 Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Hey Wantan...It's all a game...and once you learn how to play...you'll get it and understand why we pretend "not to get "... Do you get it???
newbby Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 because if somebody just came up to us and said "nice tits" it would be boring.
Author WantanS4 Posted June 7, 2005 Author Posted June 7, 2005 Understood............ As for playing the game.......... i don't...... never have............. there are other things more important to deal with/think of/spend time doing. So can we say that all we are the cause of our own miseries? And lack the dignity to take responsibility for it?
HokeyReligions Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Originally posted by scarlyjones I would have used a stronger female role model like Lara Croft................but have you SEEN Angelina Jolie act?? Is THAT what that is supposed to be? Acting? So why then do women openly BASH men when they do it? Why do they clump the blame on us? You gotta play the game with the right women! Some women don't play & you have to lose a few rounds before you can intuit which women play.
Illusion24 Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 I usually don't play games, dont' get me wrong, but you do need a little flirting and some nice "sexual" words thrown at you to make you feel sexy and beautiful... But honestly if I'm not interested in a guy I tell him straight up..."Nice talking to you, but I'm not interested"... Only woman who have huge ego's and think theirs God's gift to men BASH men and make them feel like losers...If a guy approaches me I know it took him a lot of courage and I'm not just going to look at him and say... "What do you want" Men...can't live with them...can't live without them
LucreziaBorgia Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Its a strange catch-22. Women want to be found sexually attractive, but they don't want to appear to want it too much, lest they look desperate or 'slutty'. But... its imperative that you show you want them - you just have to work on how you get that point across. You may get caught in this routine: Man wants to get in a woman's pants. Woman wants man to get into her pants. Man goes about the business of getting into said pants using a tired line that he thinks is sexy. Woman says "you just want me for sex" Man says "I don't want you for just sex" Woman says "What?! You don't find me attractive enough to have sex with?!" Man says Some of this is 'tongue-in-cheek' but... Women want to be found sexually attractive, but in such a way where she feels that she is unique - she won't fall for tired old lines, but if you work those tired old lines into something tailor made for her she'll be more likely to be receptive. If you use the tired old lines or come off as some horny dude who will f*ck just to be f*cking someone, then you are a cad and will get turned down (unless she's looking for a random hookup herself). If you use tailor-made lines to show that you want to f*ck her, and only her, then you are 'romantic'. If you don't use lines at all, you'll be stuck being the "friend guy".
Author WantanS4 Posted June 7, 2005 Author Posted June 7, 2005 Makes sense......... afterall... we are animals.... mammals to be bit more specific.... and our existence depends on our replication......... I'd rather squak like rooster........
scarlyjones Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Humans love figuring things out. We dont want things HANDED to us. Thats boring. We want a challenge. We make fun of you guys for it because you're so bad at it.
HokeyReligions Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Originally posted by WantanS4 I'd rather squak like rooster........ some women might respond well to that! I always LOVED the pickup lines! I never fell for them, but I soooo enjoyed hearing them. I didn't bash men because of it (or I tried not to) but sometimes it was just so dang funny that I could barely excuse myself politely so I could go off to the ladies room to howl with laughter! With my husband I remember saying "heard it, try another one" when we first met! I've never had anyone squak at me like a rooster -- it would certainly pique my interest! Of course, I have been known to bark at my computer (just last week in fact) and my co-workers were intrigued . I explained that the motto of one of my dogs (Willy) is "when in doubt, bark at it. If it doesn't work, bark at it. If it doesn't jump off the counter and into my mouth, bark at it." In short, his fix for everything is to bark at it and darned if it doesn't work for him! So, since I had so many problems with my PC, I barked at it!. It worked for me too---'cause our IT guy came over and fixed the dang thing! Sorry to derail.... but your squaking rooster reminded me of that!
scarlyjones Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 I dont agree with your post ..................... "ARF ARF ARF"
Author WantanS4 Posted June 7, 2005 Author Posted June 7, 2005 hahahaa..... good story....... WOOF! Anyone?? WooF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ConfusedInOC Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Originally posted by WantanS4 plutonic. Is this some sort of characteristic inhabitants of Pluto exude?!?!
ConfusedInOC Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia Its a strange catch-22. Women want to be found sexually attractive, but they don't want to appear to want it too much, lest they look desperate or 'slutty'. But... its imperative that you show you want them - you just have to work on how you get that point across. You may get caught in this routine: Man wants to get in a woman's pants. Woman wants man to get into her pants. Man goes about the business of getting into said pants using a tired line that he thinks is sexy. Woman says "you just want me for sex" Man says "I don't want you for just sex" Woman says "What?! You don't find me attractive enough to have sex with?!" Man says Some of this is 'tongue-in-cheek' but... Women want to be found sexually attractive, but in such a way where she feels that she is unique - she won't fall for tired old lines, but if you work those tired old lines into something tailor made for her she'll be more likely to be receptive. If you use the tired old lines or come off as some horny dude who will f*ck just to be f*cking someone, then you are a cad and will get turned down (unless she's looking for a random hookup herself). If you use tailor-made lines to show that you want to f*ck her, and only her, then you are 'romantic'. If you don't use lines at all, you'll be stuck being the "friend guy". LB, this is the best advice I've read on here in a while in regards to the dating game. I think you're 100% on target with your analysis. Good job.
Lil Honey Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 I have a hard time believing that all of it is a game. From where I sit, it sure looks like a lot (not ALL) women are flaunting their stuff just because they are desperate and in need of attention. It looks like some women will take any attention they can get and then complain later that the guy is a loser. They end up making all women look stupid, dense and easy. IMHO, there wouldn't be so many loser men if those women didn't accept their behavior. More men would realize that being an a$$ doesn't work and would try a different approach. Let's take what looks like a staggering number of young women who support their boyfriends. Okay, yes, he is a loser if he can't support himself, so why is she doing it for him? In a year or two, when she WAKES UP, she's whining about how much money she spent/lost on him. I also think that self-esteem has a lot to do with it. I think that some women need a boyfriend in order to feel valued, in order to "show the world" that she is lovable, in order to avoid being alone . . .
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