Matt17 Posted January 26, 2016 Posted January 26, 2016 It's been approx. three weeks since our break up. I was with this girl for around a year. Our relationship ended because of a stupid argument. It wasn't anything serious, but apparently enough to break off our relationship. She said that she couldn't handle all the stupid arguments we had. I understand her - but however we did not fight that often, not more than any other couple I'd say. The reason I'm typing this is because she's reached out to me twice already. First time was a week after the BU. She contacted me and said that I look great on a picture I had put on instagram. That was pretty much it. Two days ago she contacted me again. This time she said that she misses me. I pretty much just replied with "Okay, cool." Which in my opinion was kinda rude - am I right? The reason I replied like that is because I got a feeling that she's just trying to feed her ego. We had a quite good conversation after that but I kinda felt like she was "upset" in some way. What do you guys think she might want? I understand it might be hard to guess based on the small details I've given, but I'd appreciate any feedback. I have to say it kinda sucks that she contacted me around this time. I had been doing great that week and literally could give zero f***s about her at that point. But then she contacted me.. and now I kind of miss her. It's like women can sense when someone is starting to move on..
DarkHorizon Posted January 26, 2016 Posted January 26, 2016 If you want to move on, block her. All her numbers. emails, social network sites. Disappear from her life completely, by adopting NC.
Brando Posted January 26, 2016 Posted January 26, 2016 Well it sounds like you two broke up on a whim when emotions were running high. This is pretty much the only time and situation I would suggest that you can work it out and get back together with her if you want. Most breakups happen when one party is just not into it anymore. There is usually a period where the unhappy party is slowly disconnecting and emotionally detaching until they finally have the "we need to talk" come up. Then getting back together is next to impossible.... In your case...you both got into it and probably said some things you didn't mean and left out of anger in the moment. If you want to ask her out for a drink and talk it out since the dust has settled. If your not interested leave it be and move on. Simple really......
mightycpa Posted January 26, 2016 Posted January 26, 2016 Beware of girls who break up on a whim. You're likely to hear it over and over again. Time to put this one out of her misery. Block her so she gets the message.
Learningtowalkagain Posted January 26, 2016 Posted January 26, 2016 Whenever an ex reaches out to you, and you want to reconcile, if they say "I miss you"...it's probably true...but that doesn't mean she wants to get back together. Whenever I get breadcrumbs like that from an ex when I was either the dumper or dumpee I always made a nice response and followed it up with "what is your purpose in contacting me today"...if she responds with anything other than "I'm having second thoughts about us, I want to get back together etc"...I usually just move on and stay NC.
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