szy123 Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 Hey! My english is not very good but i try. My girl left after 4 years relationship. From time to time during 4 years she cheating on me with the same guy. Now we are month after break up. Today she told me that she is in relationship with other guy. I'm so desperate. I miss her so much. I now I'm stupid but I love her. Is it chance to get her back. No contact can do something in this situation? Any tips ? Thanks you for reply.
Brando Posted January 26, 2016 Posted January 26, 2016 I am really sorry to hear about this. You have to go 100% no contact. You have to move on. Block all social media. Throw out or hide anything that reminds you of her. Delete and black her phone number. Never contact her again!! I know your pain! I know both sides of it. I've been you and I've been her. Anything you try to do to get her back will be nothing, but annoying or an ego boost to her. She threw away 4 years because she wants to run off with some new guy. I know it's hard for you to see because you're heartbroken, but try to look at it from a 3rd party perspective. You'd be crazy to go back to her even if she came around. She would drop you again sooner or later and how would you ever come to trust her again?! In my opinion....she isn't the one who got away....she is the bullet you dodged!!! You will see this too after time. Hang in there man! For what it's worth we have all been there before. Cut all ties with her and never look back. NC is essential for you. I'm sorry. It's so so hard! Time to surround yourself with your friends and family. Hit the gym, join a club, write a journal, find something you enjoy. All these things may help a little bit, but ultimately only time will heal you to a stronger better you! Be kind to yourself and be proactive taking the steps to healing. I feel for you my friend, but you deserve (and will find) someone much better....even if that's hard for you to believe right now.
renny Posted January 26, 2016 Posted January 26, 2016 She sounds like not a nice person. She's a cheater. Youre in pain, but you'll be much better off without her.
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