Ryan52 Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 We dated for about 3 months. In the last week of the relationship, we went on a trip together. 3 days later, she wanted to sleep over my parent’s house with me for the first time. Then the next day, I went to her parent’s house (for the first time) for a Christmas party. I met 20 of her family members. Everything was going well. She then was making plans for New Years with me and her. We went out on New Years (even slept together). But the very next morning she ended it. Not giving me a real reason why. I have not texted her (but she texted me once or twice), I do not comment or like anything on her Facebook, I do not look at her snapchat stories (but she always looks at mine) and now she deleted me off Facebook after 2 weeks of the Break Up. She still has my cousins and friends on it. Did she delete me to move on? Should I also delete our pictures on my Facebook? She also deleted me from snapchat.
marky00 Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 Sorry buddy. After 3 months only and that sudden, its one of 2 things. Her Ex came back or you were a rebound and she just realised she couldn't continue with her heart and mind somewhere else. When the cut-off is quick and cruel, its almost always because someone else is in the picture. 1
Author Ryan52 Posted January 25, 2016 Author Posted January 25, 2016 Ya I'm guessing it's the ex. They are Facebook friends again. So do I delete all of the pics on my Facebook? It's obvious she doesn't care. If she did, she wouldn't delete me.
Chi townD Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 Yeah, I'm guessing it's about the Ex too. Chances are she's posting stuff she doesn't want you to see. But, she isn't smart enough to know that your friends can see her stuff and they're going to inform you eventually.
marky00 Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 I stay away from social media generally speaking and believe me that helps when it comes to issues like this. She needs to delete you because her Ex wont accept you being around. Its pretty much that simple. I'm not an expert on dealing with the social media side of things but since she deleted your photos, it puts you in a position where you may have to do the same and possibly block her as well. Blocking may seem like the wrong this to do but long-term she will actually respect you for it. She knows what she has done and she is probably feeling guilty but if her Ex is back, you can't compete with that it seems. There is nothing you can do other than take the high ground. You have done well so far. Don't react, don't contact... just disappear.
Author Ryan52 Posted January 25, 2016 Author Posted January 25, 2016 Sigh. They were together for about 1.5 years and he has two kids. Not sure why you would want to go to that agin. If it didn't work before, it probably won't work again. Especially when they've been only apart 6 months
Author Ryan52 Posted January 25, 2016 Author Posted January 25, 2016 I stay away from social media generally speaking and believe me that helps when it comes to issues like this. She needs to delete you because her Ex wont accept you being around. Its pretty much that simple. I'm not an expert on dealing with the social media side of things but since she deleted your photos, it puts you in a position where you may have to do the same and possibly block her as well. Blocking may seem like the wrong this to do but long-term she will actually respect you for it. She knows what she has done and she is probably feeling guilty but if her Ex is back, you can't compete with that it seems. There is nothing you can do other than take the high ground. You have done well so far. Don't react, don't contact... just disappear. She actually didn't delete my photos. I'm still in her profile pics. There's us kissing and what not
DarkHorizon Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 She deleted/blocked you so she can move on. If she tried to contact you after the breakup is most likely out of guilt or to feel a bit better about leaving you, but it is just for her own good. Best approach is NC, and try to stop looking for answers. That's just your brain going into obsessive mode, trying to find all the broken parts so it can piece them together. It's a natural defense mechanism of the ego - but it is pointless and just makes you hurt even more.
marky00 Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 Ok I see you actually said deleted you off facebook which is essentially blocking you off facebook. Yeh the block is mainly out of respect for you. Since its been only 2 weeks, she doesnt want to admit shes been two-timing.
marky00 Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 Sigh. They were together for about 1.5 years and he has two kids. Not sure why you would want to go to that agin. If it didn't work before, it probably won't work again. Especially when they've been only apart 6 months Yep. Your probably right. Im pretty sure hes been the one dumping her. He probably came back when he saw her moving on with you. That happens very often.
Author Ryan52 Posted January 25, 2016 Author Posted January 25, 2016 She claimed sh rushed into a relationship after her break up... But I still don't know why she would delete me from everything if that's the case. It ended on a good note. And if she's not "ready" for a relationship, I think you can keep people on your FB. You could have hidden me on it.
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