bluefairy812 Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 6 months - however, we have known each other 3 years. he is not your typical guy at all! isn't a fan of partying, prefers to stay home, drink some bourbon, eat BBQ and watch football Any who - his birthday is coming up in March. Needed opinions but he is a very busy guy with work (he works 2 jobs) attending conferences, traveling to other countries for research and will be traveling a lot this year including leaving for 3 months in the summer. In addition, has 3 bachelor parties this year and 2 weddings. I was thinking for his birthday to buy a trip to Gatlinburg, TN for us to go in November OR December when the craziness of his schedule dies down - most likely around Christmas. I figured a trip includes experience and time to make memories, much better than buying a bottle of bourbon or t-shirt. My question is - is that birthday gift too far away for him to enjoy? Opinions welcome - thanks!
PegNosePete Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 Yeah, I would say it's too far away, most people for their birthday like something they can enjoy on (or around) their birthday. Especially since you've been dating 6 months, buying a holiday 11 months in the future may be a little... premature. 6
smackie9 Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 IMO yes. You have only been dating for 6 months.....you may not be together 10 months from now. I recommend you buy tickets for a game, or buy him a box of fine cigars to go with that bourbon. What always wins is a nice home cooked meal, and you putting on new lingerie for him. 2
Author bluefairy812 Posted January 25, 2016 Author Posted January 25, 2016 IMO yes. You have only been dating for 6 months.....you may not be together 10 months from now. I recommend you buy tickets for a game, or buy him a box of fine cigars to go with that bourbon. What always wins is a nice home cooked meal, and you putting on new lingerie for him. haha i like that! classic but always effective. my only issue is, i'm extremely shy in that department of putting on lingerie.... .
Author bluefairy812 Posted January 25, 2016 Author Posted January 25, 2016 well. we make 1 year in August. he has brought up the topic of living together and we are both saving money to move out when my lease is over in June. but, you guys are making me think, maybe I should buy the trip for our 1 year anniversary in August? Since December is a lot closer to August than it is in January :rolleyes:
smackie9 Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 haha i like that! classic but always effective. my only issue is, i'm extremely shy in that department of putting on lingerie.... . omg! it would be the best bday present for him ever!! Seriously it would be one of the best moments of your relationship. Now go to victoria secret, and pick out a baby doll top. It covers enough to make you feel comfortable but still be sexy enough for him.
Author bluefairy812 Posted January 26, 2016 Author Posted January 26, 2016 what do I do? just say brb going to change? what do I say? I am an amateur
Toodaloo Posted January 26, 2016 Posted January 26, 2016 Blue All you do is bung on your stockings and suspenders a sexy bra and matching pants. Chuck on your jeans and t shirt... Then tell him you have a surprise for him... When he discovers the sexy underwear under every day clothes he will be in haven! Also by doing that every now and then it will keep him on his toes as he will never know what to expect when he undresses you... Also sexy underwear is there to make you look and feel good! I am a sexy undies kinda girl. Love wearing stockings, basques etc under just every day clothes like jumpers and tracksuit bottoms... Haven't done it in recent years but I have been looking to refresh my under wear drawer for when I meet some one who aprichiates it! I also think tickets to a game and a nice supper. When you get there you could tell him you are not wearing any knickers because you were thinking about him and "forgot"... another tactic that will get his motor racing!
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