with my another-continent lover? :D

[Inaa]

I met someone online. He is an Asian, I am a European. We chatted for a few weeks, then he said he was in love with me and wanted to come and visit me. At first I didn’t think he was serious so I agreed but he did it. He flied all these kilometers just to see me. I had no idea what to expect but when he came, he was great. He stayed with me for a week and we had a great time together.

 

When he was leaving, we didn’t talk about meeting again, didn’t make plans for the future. I knew it would be too hard to keep this thing going on so I had decided that once he was left, I will not contact him again. But he kept writing every day. Then out of a sudden, he said he didn’t deserve me and wished me all the best. I though he must have met someone else, I accepted this and didn’t try to contact him again.

 

After a week he texted again saying how much he missed me and he wanted to see me again. I was nice to him but didn’t fall for this. He kept writing – for Christmas, New year. After that he started writing more often, sending me photos, telling me about his day. And suddenly I started doing the same so now we chat every day.

 

But a few day ago he became strange, said that it was hard for him to find someone like me, I was different than the other women and he wanted to have a child with me. Yesterday he talked about us having a child again. Yet he still doesn’t say anything about our next meeting. Only that he wanted to move to Europe.

 

Now I wonder are these just words or if not, isn’t he totally crazy to want a child with a girl he has spent only a week with? Anyone with similar experience?

 

And what’s more, he is really hot, tall, works out a lot and I am sure he can easily find another a girl.

[basil67]

Yes, he's totally crazy to want a child with a girl he's only spent a week with. I suspect he's a bit desperate and can't find anyone in his own country. Being hot isn't enough to guarantee finding a partner.