iphone_user1 Posted January 24, 2016 Posted January 24, 2016 A young girl (20 years old) who already has like 10 ex-boyfriends, but that's not actually the problem, it is that none of her 10 relationships have lasted more than a few months. What can be going on with her mind? Should I worry about it? I mean, she must be unstable or something, right? May she have some sort of issues she's not aware of? Seek attention maybe?
Wewon Posted January 24, 2016 Posted January 24, 2016 A young girl (20 years old) who already has like 10 ex-boyfriends, but that's not actually the problem, it is that none of her 10 relationships have lasted more than a few months. What can be going on with her mind? Should I worry about it? I mean, she must be unstable or something, right? May she have some sort of issues she's not aware of? Seek attention maybe? At 20, I would assume that she was just at the flighty stage of her life. I would also question nature of the "relationships", I imagine most of them were high school and was based on the who was cutest or most popular for her to be attached to. She would likely outgrow it, but I wouldn't expect much from her for a few years. 5
Lois_Griffin Posted January 24, 2016 Posted January 24, 2016 LMAO. Well nobody ever accused 20 year old girls of being wise and mature. Jeez. 3
mrldii Posted January 24, 2016 Posted January 24, 2016 LMAO. Well nobody ever accused 20 year old girls of being wise and mature. Jeez. Pretty sure it's part of the job description of being a 20-YO human to not be wise and mature. 2
Buddhist Posted January 24, 2016 Posted January 24, 2016 What can be going on with her mind? Should I worry about it? I mean, she must be unstable or something, right? May she have some sort of issues she's not aware of? Seek attention maybe? She's 20, that's what's going on. Young people get bored, they have no idea what relationships are all about. She's probably just finding infatuation and leaving the relationship when the attraction wears off. What's more concerning is what's going on with you needing to judge her like that. It smacks of insecurity. 1
Space Ritual Posted January 24, 2016 Posted January 24, 2016 A young girl (20 years old) who already has like 10 ex-boyfriends, but that's not actually the problem, it is that none of her 10 relationships have lasted more than a few months. What can be going on with her mind? Should I worry about it? I mean, she must be unstable or something, right? May she have some sort of issues she's not aware of? Seek attention maybe? She is 20. That's what is going in with her mind...lol Don't sweat it, you'll probably be number 11. Just go on the ride and keep your hands inside the car and you'll emerge with a great story to tell. lol
Space Ritual Posted January 24, 2016 Posted January 24, 2016 I better stay away LOL Only if you are thinking long term. Otherwise grab yourself a piece and abort the mission just before the Eagle Has Landed.
WomenWubber Posted January 24, 2016 Posted January 24, 2016 Maybe too young to think long term, but old enough to drill and enjoy.
Truth34 Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 Lovin these responses lol. One thing to add, some of us people at 20 werent flighty or in a constant emotional rollercoaster. So it's not really fair for someone to call the other out as "judging her", because he is using HER history as reason. Which is merely being observant. I don't take it as he is bringing her down morally, just that he notices a trend. 2
Jimmyjackson Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 Most likely just sewing oats. I'm sure she didn't intend for them all to be short, it's just what happened by coincidence.
stillafool Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 She's just having fun and enjoying her youth? More than likely she is goodlooking so that's why she's going through them fast. Would you ask what was wrong with a 20 yo man doing this?
CTRL C Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 (edited) A young girl (20 years old) who already has like 10 ex-boyfriends, but that's not actually the problem, it is that none of her 10 relationships have lasted more than a few months. What can be going on with her mind? Should I worry about it? I mean, she must be unstable or something, right? May she have some sort of issues she's not aware of? Seek attention maybe? At 20, is she still counting her high school relationships? Remembering the other girls in my high school days, many could have easily gone through 10 boys in those 4 years. Just because there's 10 exes, doesn't mean she's gone through 10 serious "adult" relationships or even 10 sexual relationships. All you know is that she has, in her lifetime, met 10 different people at various points in her life that she developed an attachment to. I'd just say she's young and not taking things too seriously is all. Actually, it might be to her benefit as when she does decide to seriously look for a partner, she'll have the experience to recognize who and what she's looking for. Edited January 25, 2016 by CTRL C Typo
Poutrew Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 My rule is if I can still picture their mama changing their poopy diapers I would stay away. Under those rules, I would barely consider a 20 year old human. At best, a 20 year old human is fresh out of swaddling cloths.... But, that is me Now. I didn't start thinking like that until I was around 30ish. I say go for it if you too are around 20. But just don't expect anything like a mature, balanced relationship from anyone that age...
Author iphone_user1 Posted January 25, 2016 Author Posted January 25, 2016 Yeah, I'm not trying to bring her down morally. It's just curiosity since, for me, it's not common such a long list at a young age and all of them lasting just a few months.
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