7675 Posted January 24, 2016 Posted January 24, 2016 There's this girl I know. The full story between her and I is a bit complicated so I won't go fully into it. Anyway, We've been in touch since the start of december. We both go to the same university but we've been on holiday since december and we return to school in early feb. Over the holidays we've kept in touch via instant messaging. She's told me she looks forward to seeing me when we get back, and also told me that she would be interested in going out when we get back (after I asked her). The thing is, She hardly ever initiates contact (she's only done it once). Even though she always responds, often quickly, it mostly feels like I have to keep the conversation going. I'm used to girls who are interested in me bombarding me with texts. So i can't really tell if she is really interested, lukewarm, or what
introverted1 Posted January 24, 2016 Posted January 24, 2016 Just ask her out properly when you are both back at school. There are a million reasons why she might not initiate texts -- unsure of your interest, disinclined to have a "relationship" over text, busy with friends/family, etc. Set up a date (place and time) and invite her. Her response will give you the answer to your question. 1
oberkeat Posted January 24, 2016 Posted January 24, 2016 There's this girl I know. The full story between her and I is a bit complicated so I won't go fully into it. Anyway, We've been in touch since the start of december. We both go to the same university but we've been on holiday since december and we return to school in early feb. Over the holidays we've kept in touch via instant messaging. She's told me she looks forward to seeing me when we get back, and also told me that she would be interested in going out when we get back (after I asked her). The thing is, She hardly ever initiates contact (she's only done it once). Even though she always responds, often quickly, it mostly feels like I have to keep the conversation going. I'm used to girls who are interested in me bombarding me with texts. So i can't really tell if she is really interested, lukewarm, or what I don't think it's uncommon. This girl I was having sex with recently was the same way. She hardly ever initiated any of the contact. If I wanted to see her I would have to do most of the work by reaching out to her. But when we did hang out things were great. I would not read too much into it.
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