Just smile Posted January 24, 2016 Posted January 24, 2016 I'm not proud to say that I've been back and forth on this site for several years . I'll bring y'all up to speed . Last year once again I went back ... This time , he put a ring on my finger , yes engaged , what a shift our relationship took , completely different - loving , attentive and just very different . Still cautious I was becoming more optimistic . All good for nearly 11 mos . About a week ago I couldn't reach him by phone he was at a work related party and by 10 hasn't heard from him , so I admit I became irritated by him ignoring several calls and texts . I admit maybe I was a little over the too bitching yelling etc .. What happened next is clincher . The next day he said to me " until you get the help you need and send me the credential of your therapist I will not be seeing you ". Huh ???? Now I'm crazy . I went to his house to talk figured maybe he was just overreacting and we needed to talk , when I got there he said if you don't leave ill call the cops - me ? Stunned - I wasn't yelling , I was shocked . He then pretended to pick up phone & call police . I left , police were never called but the last words he spoke were this -" I'm done with you , I've contacted an attorney to protect myself because I'm unsure what your capable of ? ( again huh? ) and swore on his kids he'd never speak with me ever again . I knew it was all too good to be true . Cycle and patterns came back with a vengeance and I'm very sad to know I'm just as disposable to him as ever . Engaged or not . Please no hate mail . I'm already busted up about this . Thanks for listening
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