Author TreadingLightly Posted January 25, 2016 Author Posted January 25, 2016 She may not be a good person but she also has no idea why her M is falling apart. Yes she does. I am quite sure she is well aware what caused the breakdown of their marriage. They filed for divorce a little more than 3 years ago with no infidelity involved citing irreconcilable differences, but decided to try one more time, the result was that it got even worse and she told him to find a new sex partner and leave her alone, but still fully support her as a SAHM. That really doesn't seem reasonable to me, does it to you? If she were one of my friends I would have told her to just get a divorce if she wasn't interested in sex with her husband, and would have flamed her for telling him to find it elsewhere.
ladydesigner Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 Yes she does. I am quite sure she is well aware what caused the breakdown of their marriage. They filed for divorce a little more than 3 years ago with no infidelity involved citing irreconcilable differences, but decided to try one more time, the result was that it got even worse and she told him to find a new sex partner and leave her alone, but still fully support her as a SAHM. That really doesn't seem reasonable to me, does it to you? If she were one of my friends I would have told her to just get a divorce if she wasn't interested in sex with her husband, and would have flamed her for telling him to find it elsewhere. I cannot for the life of me understand why any wife would say something like that but I guess they do. Did he tell you this?
ladydesigner Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 Honestly I would stay far from their radar, especially if the wife gets wind that this A is more than she had thought. Given they had filed for D seems she had an idea the M was heading south. 1
Author TreadingLightly Posted January 25, 2016 Author Posted January 25, 2016 Honestly I would stay far from their radar, especially if the wife gets wind that this A is more than she had thought. Given they had filed for D seems she had an idea the M was heading south. I am keeping my head way down, trust me. She has said in his hearing she thinks it started in August, so at least she doesn't seem to know it has been nearly two years. He says she left him twice before the first time they filed, so it has been on the rocks for a long time. It's really sad.
ladydesigner Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 I am keeping my head way down, trust me. She has said in his hearing she thinks it started in August, so at least she doesn't seem to know it has been nearly two years. He says she left him twice before the first time they filed, so it has been on the rocks for a long time. It's really sad. Well I hope you don't get caught in any crossfire, best to let him handle his ex. I hope their D goes quickly so that the dust can settle and all parties move on for what is best for them. Best of luck to you! 1
goodyblue Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 (edited) Well I hope you don't get caught in any crossfire, best to let him handle his ex. I hope their D goes quickly so that the dust can settle and all parties move on for what is best for them. Best of luck to you! I was pretty careful regarding my h's ex. It was not easy. She tried to confront me one time in front of my children but I locked us all in the bathroom turned on the fan and water and ignored her screaming. Now it has been some years and I steer clear of her at all costs. Although their child is raised so there is no need for communication. Just take it slow. Don't rush anything. I hope things go fairly smooth for you. It is a hard time. Edited January 25, 2016 by goodyblue 2
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