mrldii Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 Slow down there. Real I was talking in general. My post didn't pertain to you. I just used yours as a point of reference. Don't get defensive.. The next time a post of yours doesn't pertain to me, don't quote me when attempting to make a point, and then ask [me] a question at the end of your post which had nothing to do with me, other than you quoted me. Oh, and 'I don't think the word "defensive" means what you think it means'...
mrldii Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 This is your problem, you dont know my motives so stop assuming you know everything, you dont. Actually, it's NOT my problem; I didn't start this thread. I simply responded - as did several other people - however, my reply was with an opinion you didn't like (as was the case with similar opinions from 4 other women and 5 men, at last count). Glad to see it's all worked out, and you're happy with the results. You can ask the LS mods to shut down a thread you've created, if/once it's run its course.
Author jsmith92 Posted January 25, 2016 Author Posted January 25, 2016 You didnt just respond though like everyone else, you can have your opinion yes but from the off you started telling me what i was going to be doing and how i was going to act whatever the result. You dont know me so dont tell me how im going to act, i have spoke about it with my gf and thats it, there was no overreaction like you assumed there was going to be.
CarrieT Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 OP, you like (love?) your GF for a reason. Because of who she is. All those things that you see in her is a collective of her experiences - good and bad. Is it important to understand why she treats people the way she does based on something that *might* have happened to her in the third grade? Nope. You just understand that she has gone through a series of experiences - as have you - which have made her the person she is today and the person you are attracted to. The same can be applied to sex; her sexual past and your sexual past. Those sexual experiences are no different (in the grand scheme of life) than any other experience that molds one's life. Knowing the specifics shouldn't change how you deal with another. You either accept them for who they are or you don't.
Davidjo Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 So i have been with my current girlfriend for 10 months now, everything is good and we are happy. Im 24 and she is 22, this is my third relationship, i have only been single for 6 months since my 18th birthday, ive slept with 4 girls in total. My girlfriend has an opposite past to me, im her first relationship over 6 months and i know she has a past of sleeping around. She knows my number but i dont know hers, my guess is its around the 10 mark but possibly more. I havent really thought about her past until recently, she says she is very happy with me and that after a few years of being single she is happy to be in a relationship and we have spoke about the future quite a lot. We have known each other for three years and were really good mates before we started seeing each other. I know her number is going to be a lot more then mine, shes got the experience of the single life whereas ive had 2 long term relationships before the one im currently in. Ive just been curious lately to find out what her exact nunber is, is it worth me bringing it up or should it not matter? It's going to be bugging you so just ask. But most girls will usually down the number of men they've slept with.and what ever number it is will be too much for you. But 10 plus sounds high for a girl that young. Just saying....
joystickd Posted January 25, 2016 Posted January 25, 2016 The next time a post of yours doesn't pertain to me, don't quote me when attempting to make a point, and then ask [me] a question at the end of your post which had nothing to do with me, other than you quoted me. Oh, and 'I don't think the word "defensive" means what you think it means'... Whatever you love arguing with me. The passion. All you have to do is ignore. The question is do you have a learning disability due to your lack of reading comprehension. Yeah I'm confrontational. That's always been me.
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