Hopeful30 Posted January 22, 2016 Posted January 22, 2016 How do you distinguish a man who just wants to bang anything with nice legs, versus a man who is really into you and wants to show his desire by making you feel like a woman....through sex? I know there is a difference, because I've dated both kinds of men: those who just want to get off, and those who want to show you they can rock your world. But I don't know how to spot the difference. Help!
Redhead14 Posted January 22, 2016 Posted January 22, 2016 How do you distinguish a man who just wants to bang anything with nice legs, versus a man who is really into you and wants to show his desire by making you feel like a woman....through sex? I know there is a difference, because I've dated both kinds of men: those who just want to get off, and those who want to show you they can rock your world. But I don't know how to spot the difference. Help! Generally, the guy who just wants sex, skips foreplay altogether or accepts foreplay given to him, but doesn't participate in foreplay mutually. They usually just get right down to "biness". They spend very little time, if any, pleasuring the woman before he gets what he wants . . .
DrReplyInRhymes Posted January 22, 2016 Posted January 22, 2016 How do you distinguish a man who just wants to bang anything with nice legs, versus a man who is really into you and wants to show his desire by making you feel like a woman....through sex? I know there is a difference, because I've dated both kinds of men: those who just want to get off, and those who want to show you they can rock your world. But I don't know how to spot the difference. Help! Through tenacity and tedious observation, though excellent communication and tender conversation, Though time is factor, and it differs with every man, Sooner or later, you should be able to see the grand plan.
Miss Peach Posted January 22, 2016 Posted January 22, 2016 I look at his behavior when we're not having sex. If he can't plan ahead, respect your time, show you he cares, sees you as little as possible, pressures you, etc. than I would go with the former. If he wants to talk with you, see you, do things with you when the clothing is on, and acts like your BF then I would go with the latter. 1
Gaeta Posted January 22, 2016 Posted January 22, 2016 Generally, the guy who just wants sex, skips foreplay altogether or accepts foreplay given to him, but doesn't participate in foreplay mutually. They usually just get right down to "biness". They spend very little time, if any, pleasuring the woman before he gets what he wants . . . I would not use that as a barometer to measure if a man only wants sex. Many men are into foreplay even if they only want sex out of you and many men in love devoted to their gf aren't in foreplay. 2
xcupid Posted January 22, 2016 Posted January 22, 2016 Use your past experience as a way to tell. The guy who comes on strong initially probably wants to have sex. The guy who romances you and woos you and treats you well and wants to get to know you is a different type of animal.
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