fornazariaugusto Posted January 22, 2016 Posted January 22, 2016 As the title says, I am in love with someone which I will never have. There are many reasons for that. She once told me she loved me, than suddenly she blocked me of every single social networks saying that "the magic is over". Because of her family we have never been able to have anything, even to talk to much in person. I think that this is one of the reasons, but I just can't get her out of my mind and I really don't want it. I want to be with her, love her as much as I can love a person. I am afraid of caling her and be blocked by the last way of communication I have with her. I'm feeling under the weather. Can anyone tell me what to do, please? 1
TaraMaiden2 Posted January 22, 2016 Posted January 22, 2016 (edited) Move on. It's a pointless and ultimately heart-breaking exercise to consider a strategy involving contacting her. There is nothing for you to do but quit pining and let her go. How long ago did all of this happen...? Edited January 22, 2016 by TaraMaiden2 3
Satu Posted January 22, 2016 Posted January 22, 2016 (edited) Being hung up on an ex that doesn't want to be with you, is like hanging onto an old lottery ticket that didn't win you anything. You have to use your mental and emotional adult faculties to find out how to move on. You have to shift from the abandoned child mode, into the adult mode. This might involve reading relevant books, seeing a counsellor, or writing about how you feel. If the truth is told, you are hanging onto nothing. Take care. Edited January 22, 2016 by Satu 3
ZA Dater Posted January 22, 2016 Posted January 22, 2016 I can relate to this, I too like someone I apparently cant have who isn't interested in me. Put simply I cant move on so most days are just spent in some sort of world where I try keep myself doing something. I want what I want and if I cant have it them so be it, I get to live my own failing each and every day.
Author fornazariaugusto Posted January 22, 2016 Author Posted January 22, 2016 Move on. It's a pointless and ultimately heart-breaking exercise to consider a strategy involving contacting her. There is nothing for you to do but quit pining and let her go. How long ago did all of this happen...? It happened just a couple of weeks ago. The thing is: we live in a small city and she is always at the school where I teach, so I can't avoid contact. I really want to let her go, to get rid of this feeling. I was so emotionally balanced... Thanks for the kind words, TaraMaiden2.
Author fornazariaugusto Posted January 22, 2016 Author Posted January 22, 2016 I really appreciate your wisdom. You made me think again. Thank you very much.
b-Shock Posted January 22, 2016 Posted January 22, 2016 Sorry man. It hurts when someone you really care about is rejecting you. Hang in there. 1
preraph Posted January 23, 2016 Posted January 23, 2016 You have to respect her wishes. And if down the road as she matures, she wants to see you again, she knows where to find you. 1
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