bambi_4 Posted June 6, 2005 Posted June 6, 2005 My ex bf broke up with me a year ago. Since then we have still been in contact and have meet up occasionally. I had a month of nc with him which after that we got back 2gether for 1 month. He is always ringing me, sometimes 2/3 times in the day. I very seldom ring him. HE hasn't been with anyone since(which I know for a fact) and we haven't had as much as kiss(except for on the cheek or a quick kiss on the lips) in the year except 4 the month back 2gether. So we haven't had relations since we broke up. He can blow hot and cold but is always there for me. At least a few conversations in the week turn into flirting. I still have a lot of feelings for him and I know he has some for me(what kind, I dont know). We broke up because he got frightened of the relationship moving too quick. It pretty much overwhelmed him. He is younger than me, I'm 26 he is 23. My problem is I want the friendship to move on to something more but I dont know if thats what he wants or is ready for that?? Can anyone advice me as to what to do or what he might be feeling??
willduggan Posted June 7, 2005 Posted June 7, 2005 theres always the easiest and most straight forward way and just flat out ask him, but usually putting pressure on someone for an answer is not the best way to go. i suggest the next time you hang out(since you say its very flirty if i read it right) perhaps be just a little more flirty, make the first move? he might just be waiting for you to show him its ok, so if you want it to progress maybe the next time you talk ask him out to something fun to see if you guys can move it up again. dont over think it, its quite the buzz kill if you think too much about it, just go with what feels ok to do:) i hope it goes ok for you.
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