YWGMan Posted January 20, 2016 Posted January 20, 2016 After almost two months of being dumped by my ex for some one else he keeps on messaging me and asking how I'm doing and that he had a bad dream about me and wanting to know how I'm doing and he keeps insisting that he has no hidden motives in messaging me. i have been doing a no contact since so i can completely heal. is this just a meaningless chatter that he is trying to do or he is just being too selfish after breaking up he could just think that i will be available for him anytime. do i answer his messages? Seeking advise and will be greatly appreciated. YWGMan
Country_Girl Posted January 20, 2016 Posted January 20, 2016 These are breadcrumbs. When an ex broke up with me a few years ago, he said the same thing. Said he had a bad dream about me, therefore was worried about me. This started happening after I went complete NC. I wouldn't reply, and if you do, let a few days pass first. I feel dumpers have this uncanny ability to sense when you are moving on/healing, and tend to reach out. I regret answering my ex's texts about bad dreams because nothing ever panned out, he just strung me along for a good year.
Author YWGMan Posted January 21, 2016 Author Posted January 21, 2016 I did not respond yet as of today, i don't really think its worth it talking to him after what he's done. The funny thing is he is seeing someone who is exactly like me look alike. It is creepy. I hope he is happy. i forgive him and i also forgive myself. i want to continue to heal and be a better, stronger and wiser person.
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