awkwardandhandsome Posted January 19, 2016 Posted January 19, 2016 So just want to keep this simple: Gf and I went on a break and then 3weeks later she dumped me. I made her mad by posting a picture with a girl on fb after the break up and she blocked me on all social media, then about 3 weeks later(now) she unblocked me and she posted a bunch of stuff like "i love my friends" and Bull****. My question is why? I don't get it lol
lilmissjava Posted January 19, 2016 Posted January 19, 2016 You did the same to her, why are you asking why she is doing it? Don't play games. Nothing fruitful will ever come of it.
smackie9 Posted January 19, 2016 Posted January 19, 2016 Maybe to mess with you. Now you block her.....for good.
TaraMaiden2 Posted January 19, 2016 Posted January 19, 2016 Why?? Because you made her mad. You really don't get it? Playing juvenile games is enough to make anyone mad.... if you'd really been on a break, you wouldn't have posted such a picture, and been so tactless. You do realise there are certain 'rules' to a 'break', yeah? Defined period of time with ending date, and a location/place to meet up at an appointed and agreed time, to discuss the relationship and where you are both 'at'. NO CONTACT theoughout, and no texting, following on FB, nothing. No dating, seeing or even mentioning anyone else, at all for the 'break' period. You're still dating each other, until such a time as you decide to break up for good.
VeveCakes Posted January 19, 2016 Posted January 19, 2016 Who cares why, you have broken up. Don't assume it's about you. Forget it and move on.
Author awkwardandhandsome Posted January 20, 2016 Author Posted January 20, 2016 Why?? Because you made her mad. You really don't get it? Playing juvenile games is enough to make anyone mad.... if you'd really been on a break, you wouldn't have posted such a picture, and been so tactless. You do realise there are certain 'rules' to a 'break', yeah? Defined period of time with ending date, and a location/place to meet up at an appointed and agreed time, to discuss the relationship and where you are both 'at'. NO CONTACT theoughout, and no texting, following on FB, nothing. No dating, seeing or even mentioning anyone else, at all for the 'break' period. You're still dating each other, until such a time as you decide to break up for good. I posted the picture of me with another girl after we broke up... out of anger and rage...
Author awkwardandhandsome Posted January 20, 2016 Author Posted January 20, 2016 Who cares why, you have broken up. Don't assume it's about you. Forget it and move on. obviously it is... why would she unblock me, so she could see me see her ****?
Author awkwardandhandsome Posted January 20, 2016 Author Posted January 20, 2016 Who cares why, you have broken up. Don't assume it's about you. Forget it and move on. obviously it is... why would she unblock me, so she could see me see her ****?
TaraMaiden2 Posted January 20, 2016 Posted January 20, 2016 I posted the picture of me with another girl after we broke up... out of anger and rage... Yes, and she knew it, which is why she blocked you. Because you were being childish and playing 'tit-for-tat revenge games. If you want to consider dating seriously, then you need to grow up a bit. Actions like that just put you in a poor light. If you can't get a handle on your emotions, you're not a very reliable, or stable partner, are you?
Author awkwardandhandsome Posted January 20, 2016 Author Posted January 20, 2016 You did the same to her, why are you asking why she is doing it? Don't play games. Nothing fruitful will ever come of it. I'm asking why because I'm curious how girls think...
TaraMaiden2 Posted January 20, 2016 Posted January 20, 2016 I'm asking why because I'm curious how girls think... Oh, if ever you find a definite way to discover that, you'll be the first so write a book, because so far, we have managed to be extremely elusive in that department...! And remember one thing: It little matters what others do. What matters most - is how you respond. Look to your actions. There's enough there for you to be concerned about, without worrying about her...
Author awkwardandhandsome Posted January 20, 2016 Author Posted January 20, 2016 Oh, if ever you find a definite way to discover that, you'll be the first so write a book, because so far, we have managed to be extremely elusive in that department...! And remember one thing: It little matters what others do. What matters most - is how you respond. Look to your actions. There's enough there for you to be concerned about, without worrying about her... so your telling me to think about how I act?
TaraMaiden2 Posted January 20, 2016 Posted January 20, 2016 so your telling me to think about how I act? You're catching on... (*You're*)
Empyrea Posted January 20, 2016 Posted January 20, 2016 We block an ex when we're still hurt and don't want to see daily reminders of them. We unblock an ex when we're over it.
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