Question for women. Is co dependence true love or the opposite?

[oregon0011]

I've known plenty who are in line for them. One explained his perspective this way: Crazy in the head = crazy in bed.

 

Yeah. Of course. We all know that. Crazy chicks are better in bed and guys like [that].

 

Once again, I'm not talking about why some girls [have sex with] bipolar guys.

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[xxoo]

Yeah. Of course. We all know that. Crazy chicks are better in bed and guys like [that].

 

Once again, I'm not talking about why some girls [have sex with] bipolar guys.

 

There are women AND men drawn to the crazy, for many reasons. Some get off on the rollercoaster ups and downs. Big highs made all the more thrilling by having experienced the big lows. Others have personal issues and maybe don't believe they deserve better, or even know any better. Maybe that's how they experienced love as a child, and so that's what they seek.

[Popsicle]

What is a hot bad girl?

 

Right, you don't even know what a bad girl is.

 

Many guys don't. Just like girls don't know when a guy is bad.

 

But to the same gender, it's as clear as day.

[oregon0011]

Right, you don't even know what a bad girl is.

 

Many guys don't. Just like girls don't know when a guy is bad.

 

But to the same gender, it's as clear as day.

 

its just silly.

 

Let me go through it for you again. These guys are not "hot". They have no money. They don't have sex. They are not nice. They are physically and verbally abusive. Yet these good looking girls who do not even do drugs are obsessed for years.

 

So it is quite different. You don't see good looking successful guys obsessing over ugly drug addicts they don't even have sex with for years.

[William]

Folks, one of our other moderators processed this out but I wanted to let members know that we're winding down this kind of material as general topics, focusing more on member's own interactions and relationships. I didn't work this but was consulted. I also put back up the individual and group berating announcement and we'll work on some more content to clarify that further. Thanks to those who participated here.