contel3 Posted January 19, 2016 Posted January 19, 2016 There's a weird behaviour I was wondering about. Happened to me several times. Regardless if you're the dumper or dumpee some exes start pursuing one of your friends REALLY hard, very soon after the break up. Like writting lovesongs, poems and generally doing stuff they wouldn't have done when you were together. If its not someone you're very close with they usually find other ways to let you know how hard they are trying. Like texting you so you're sure to know. Or they also tell you how much your friend adores them. Why the **** would someone do that? Most of these relationships last, so I don't really see the point in doing that when you're already happy with someone else. This far I've had three people do that, two dumpees and one dumper.
Blanco Posted January 19, 2016 Posted January 19, 2016 Maybe don't date awful people? I've never had an ex do this, and honestly, I'm pressed to think of any friends whose exes have pursued any of us after the breakup. All of these relationships have ended up different circumstances, with varying degrees of hurt feelings, bad blood, pain, etc. Yet, what you describe in your post has never unfolded after. That's the sort of behavior decent people get out of their system well before high school ends.
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