Author dinzsant Posted January 21, 2016 Author Posted January 21, 2016 Dont do any more favours for her. Next time the massage opportunity comes up.. start massaging her in sensual places! If she objects.. just tell her she doesn't seem sure about all this, and start putting your shoes on because you've got a date and heading out the front door. "Ok but when you get back maybe..." slam the front door on your way out. She'll learn that you're not there to be taunted. She either wants you or not She asks for my gym card now (so she can save $10!).... I have to say 'no' in a funny way which lets her know I am not a sucker......I tried one strategy someone offered me here but it didn't go well. what do you think a good thing to say would be to her when she asks for the gym car (and flirts!)? thanks !!!
Author dinzsant Posted January 23, 2016 Author Posted January 23, 2016 I have gone out the past coup,e of nights to another girls place, and this girl who I posted the question about keeps asking me what I am doing, who I am seeing. Like 10 times! Why would she care? I respond by being vague but she persists in asking me. how is bet to respond?!
Scarlett.O'hara Posted January 23, 2016 Posted January 23, 2016 this girl who I posted the question about keeps asking me what I am doing, who I am seeing. Like 10 times! Why would she care? If she is flirting in order to get attention and favors from you then she might be concerned that you might not give her as much if you meet someone else. She won't want to lose gym card privileges. I respond by being vague but she persists in asking me. how is bet to respond?! Simply turn it round on her and ask why she is so interested in your love life? It will either stop her from asking or you will get an the answer you have been waiting for. 1
Popsicle Posted January 23, 2016 Posted January 23, 2016 Oh, these types hate it when you make a move. They want things to remain the same. You have to make a bold move and then you'll get your answer. Be ready to completely walk away and move on if they reject you. Do not remain "friends" and if they whine about that later (some do) just ignore that.
Popsicle Posted January 23, 2016 Posted January 23, 2016 She asks for my gym card now (so she can save $10!).... I have to say 'no' in a funny way which lets her know I am not a sucker......I tried one strategy someone offered me here but it didn't go well. what do you think a good thing to say would be to her when she asks for the gym car (and flirts!)? thanks !!! I have gone out the past coup,e of nights to another girls place, and this girl who I posted the question about keeps asking me what I am doing, who I am seeing. Like 10 times! Why would she care? I respond by being vague but she persists in asking me. how is bet to respond?! You need to stop chit chatting with her and make that big move. Both you and her will have all the answers you need after that.
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