Dente Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 My ex just recently blocked me on IG i havent spoke with her over a month. Then out of the blue she unblocks me and likes one of my photos on IG where i am at a lounge having a drink. The photo is edit and just showing me, she could easily others photos of me but picked this one. Shes in a relationship but wanted me to date her at the sametime i said no. She tried dating but was with this guy still The she puts a quote on instagram. "Nobody can love you perfectly, we are all humans and we make mistakes by nature. But there is someone that can love you unconditionally somebody that can pray for you. Help you. Support you and genuienly care for you as consistently as you need them to if you let them. Stop holding back in the present just because you got hurt in the past. There's more to life than pain but thats all you'll ever know if you keep avoiding opportunities to grow. Remember: when its real, it wont be perfect but if you're willing to work at it and open up it could be everything you you've ever wanted so be willing to try or be prepared to miss out. " Could she be telling me thats it or dont pay attention to it? Is fishing to see where i stand or ? Any feed backs i wish not to stay in contact no contact has helped me ALOT. I am still a little attach but each day it gets better.
mrwigand Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 Those words may have been intended for you, or she may have simply felt the sentiment. Point is, unless she's trying to communicate with you directly, it's best not to try to read into things like that. I respect that you recognize NC is best for you. In addition, you may want to block her on IG, just so you could maintain that social media distance. Social media is the easiest way to mess with your head following a breakup. You see something and your mind becomes consumed with it. I would block that stuff from your feed, don't read into her quote, and keep getting better each day, sir! 2
mightycpa Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 Yeah. Stop reading that stuff, your frame of mind will compel you to try and find hidden and deep meaning in the meaningless drivel of random instagram posts. Block it from ever getting to you, and you won't have to ever worry about it or her anymore. Too bad, too, because it's almost always nice to find a girl who wants to date you without the burden or expectation of exclusivity. Damn those tender feelings!
Chi townD Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 I agree, if she doesn't say that directly to you, then you have to adopt the mindset that it wasn't intended for you. It could be meant for anyone. It's just that simple .
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