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I dated this guy for a short while. I think he is a womanizer but we spent several weekends together. Every time we fought, he said that we couldn't date but we could still be friends. I said no, we don't need to talk again. I asked him to delete my number but he didn't agree, he said he cared about me and would be always there if I want to talk to him. He said that we could still hang out and have sex together. So I think all he cares about is sex. Why he wants to become friends? Is that because of the easy sex?

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"He said that we could still hang out and have sex together. So I think all he cares about is sex."

 

Yup! There's your anwser.. "friends with benefits".

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"He said that we could still hang out and have sex together. So I think all he cares about is sex."

 

Yup! There's your anwser.. "friends with benefits".

 

Yeah I know this is exactly what he is looking for from me. But he confused me by giving me mixed signals. He even said that he cared about me too much to give me up. If he just wanted fwb he could flat out and did not need to say he cared about me :sick:

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You, should tease him to no end! Be his friend, hang out have the best time with him, but don't sleep with him.

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You, should tease him to no end! Be his friend, hang out have the best time with him, but don't sleep with him.

 

I cut it off

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I cut it off

 

 

Good! You deserve respect, don't let a guy get his ways if he can't give you what you want in return!

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Yeah I know this is exactly what he is looking for from me. But he confused me by giving me mixed signals. He even said that he cared about me too much to give me up. If he just wanted fwb he could flat out and did not need to say he cared about me :sick:

 

How old are you? For future reference just understand that guys will say things they don't mean in order to get you to do what they want. So don't be naive. Any guy you hook up with or date... Isn't going to want to be your friend after. They already have friends. They want to have you as a booty call. So no matter how genuine you think he is, it's just a ploy.

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