need some serious help guys..and girls losin sleep here lol

[qtaznromeo7]

lol i really don't know which category to post this in but...i've been going out with my girl for more than a year. on our one year anniversary i started feeling a little ...weird lol. i don't really know how to describe it. it kinda felt like depression or loneliness? but anyway she's already met my parents they love her, etc... we were actually talking about getting married and stuff. i think i might have felt like you know i'm only 18 and already marriage?! maybe i got a little scared and needed a little time to just mess around lol, so i asked her for a break. our one year was about 2 weeks ago btw. so i asked her for a break about a week ago after a week of just "weirdness" lol. you gotta understand while we were going out, i saw her about 12 hours out of the day every day for the past year. so yeah, i asked her for a break and a day later i went to a rave with some of my friends. i met this girl there, well not really met i knew her a while ago but never really talked to her or anything, so pretty much met, but she seemed to recognize me. anyways, she asked me to take care of her because she dropped that night (took e). so i said ok and i took care of her, but i think i might have taken a little too much good care of her. she asked me if she could sleep over i said ok. BUT i left my keys in my friend's car and he lost his keys to HIS car so i wound up sleepin over at her place. nothing happened, but in the morning her dad came in, saw me, kicked us both out of the house lol. long story short, i found my keys and she wound up stayin over at my place. the weird part was, me and her are both so god damn alike itz freaky and scary. it's like we would think of the same exact things like we both have the same personality. i really like her and she feels the same way about me, maybe a little more. i told her about my girl and she said she didn't wanna come between us and i thought so too, so she decided to leave, but she couldnt, and i couldn't let her go either... blah blah blah. she winds up sleepin at my house for the whole week. every day we get more and more attached it's so weird it's only been a week and the feelings she has for me is like it's been months lol. anyways, i broke up with my girl to be with her. yes i know i feel horrible enough about it already, but now i'm not sure that was such a great idea. i have no idea what to do. help please.

[Becki]

im not really sure what you need help on? The fact you dont know that gettin with this girl was such a good idea?

 

you have to ask yourself if you love your ex? you should have said you didnt want to see her like 12 hours every single day. Im ny opinion, couples need time alone/apart to do their own thing, so maybe this is why yu started feelin weird?

 

As for this other girl you met in the club, do you really want to get involved with her? yeah you might be alike, but for one you've only just 2 weeks ago split up from your ex..dont you want to get to know her more and make sure you're not on the rebound?

 

obviously i dont know you, but i think you should really think about all these situations and ideas before jumping into anyting. Maybe you just need time to be alone and single, and do single things, rather than basically jump back into a relationship!

[MadKurlz]

Could be a rebound reaction.

Also, we love to play with new toys, its once they get old, we get bored of them.

You tell your girlfriend you need time apart, and the next day you are sleeping with another girl. And you are saying that the feelings between you guys is unbelievable. Yet you broke up with your girlfriend bc you were freaking out about commitment.

I guess im bit really saying much here. Just giving you my point of how i see it.

[Merin]

IMO You got freaked out on the idea of committment and bailed instead of talking to your girl...

In walks another girl who if I don't miss my guess is completely different from your GF.. BUT you'd been so used to spending your time with your GF and now you're trying to replace that "habit" with another one (The new girl) BUT if I'm not reading this wrong now, you're starting to question yourself if you've done the right thing... because no matter how much you may like this other girl, A) you don't really know her all that well and B) She isn't your GF (The one you broke up with)

 

Grass isn't so green...

 

My 2 cent's

[Pocky]

Originally posted by qtaznromeo7

but now i'm not sure that was such a great idea. i have no idea what to do. help please.

 

Why? Are you sick of the new girl already or just missing your old girl?

[qtaznromeo7]

i'm still in love with my ex, but i really do like this girl. i dunt want to let her go, but she's been acting really really clingy lately. i mean she can't stand a day without me...