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if im interested in a girl and she begins texting me i never know when to stop. like she'll send a text and it basically ends the topic we are talking about but i feel i gotta keeep it going

 

i feel that if i dont reply then she will think im boring or not interested

 

example

 

texting for a bit and all that just about a few things about what we are up to and how our night was

 

her: yea its so freezing out today

me: im reayd for spring

her: i agree!!

 

ok that basically ended the topic there and most people would just stop but i feel i gotta kep going

 

so how can i work on this? and how do i know when to just stop texting so i wont look clingy?

 

but i also dont want her thinking im not interested

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You end it with: Don't forget to bundle up! I got to go, talk later!

 

I find it very rude when people just disappear in the middle of conversation. It's so simple to end a conversation with 'have a nice day' or 'talk later'.

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is it ok to just let it die/?

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i really have no idea what to do

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if i ask and she answers a quetsion

 

can i just not reply?

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It's always better to end any kind of communication with a closing, so that both sides know their conversation has concluded.

 

her: yea its so freezing out today

me: im reayd for spring

her: i agree!!

 

Here you could have replied "Ok, have a great day. Talk to you later."

 

Ah, but the thing is you want her to know you're interested. Well, the only way to do that is to express your interest, and it's much better if you do this directly. Ask her out and don't be her texting buddy.

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It's always better to end any kind of communication with a closing, so that both sides know their conversation has concluded.

 

her: yea its so freezing out today

me: im reayd for spring

her: i agree!!

 

Here you could have replied "Ok, have a great day. Talk to you later."

 

Ah, but the thing is you want her to know you're interested. Well, the only way to do that is to express your interest, and it's much better if you do this directly. Ask her out and don't be her texting buddy.

 

but is it necessary to do that all the time

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I think it depends on your age. I have no problem just letting a convo drop and replying when I have something to say and my friends don't either.

 

But some people find it rude, want to say goodbye or officially "end" the conversation. Unless she is like that, I wouldn't worry too much...

 

If you want to talk to her, say stuff. Ask a question.

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starting to make sense now thnaks

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im just letting it end

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