Mr Freeze Posted January 17, 2016 Posted January 17, 2016 Me and my GF of a year and a half broke up last sunday. It kind of ended the Tuesday before that as that's when we had a chat which went something along the lines of 'I still love you but I don't feel anything for you after our last argument'. Long story short I said I'd give her space to concentrate on her career and we'd try and get things back on track after a little while. Anyway my mother speaks to her, just messaged her seeing how her job was going and how she heard we were on a break and her response was 'I thought we'd split up because he's not messaged me'. So the next day I message her asking how her job is going and she basically tells me to collect my stuff, how she doesn't want to see me, how she wants to concentrate on her career, how she said all that stuff but didn't mean it (earlier on in the week we were planning holidays and moving in together), felt I was trying to bully her into a relationship she no longer wanted (she always said she wanted me to fight for her and that's what I was doing), said she'd given me enough chances already, so I just gave in, in the end and said fine I'll come collect my stuff next month and left it at that. So anyway just chilling in my life, going no contact, and I get a message through from her on Tuesday saying don't bother messaging me again, I'll leave your stuff out the back so you can collect it. Read it but ignored it then the next day she messages me saying I'm playing games with her and she doesn't know what my plan is but I need to stop because we aren't at school any more. I ask her what it's all about and it stems down to the fact that a girl which she has never liked or trusted commented the word 'gay!!' on one of my facebook posts. She tells me that it's obvious something is going on because of this and I've made it obvious to this girl that we've split up and whatever chance we had is gone. Every message I send she just sends abuse back so in the end I just leave it. (point to note she deleted me and my whole family from facebook at this point). Been nearly a week without speaking to her now. I'm giving her time to chill out a bit before contacting her again. I realise now that my behaviour became a bit wussy towards the end and this is probably what drove her away. Question is, do you think it's possible to re-ignite attraction in a relationship and start a fresh? (Sorry for the long read. I've just realised how long it actually is haha)
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