oregon0011 Posted January 19, 2016 Posted January 19, 2016 LOL - that's the only true answer... and while you certainly need not "get more intimate" anytime soon, you should recognize, from centuries of evidence, that the many investments are done with long-term payoffs in mind. True. Guys only pay because they know a certain body part dries up when the wallet is reached for and opened. Scientific fact. It isn't "being a gentleman" or whatever silly label is added.
CrystalCastles Posted January 20, 2016 Posted January 20, 2016 Personally I've always been the one to contribute more. Not only do I take turns paying, but I also go above and beyond to dress in sexy panties, dress up for dates, give lots and lots of blowjobs/handjobs/plenty of sex, cook for the guy, give massages, and I've been unfortunate enough to date guys who are penny pinching misers and are really selfish and thoughtless. I even come up with the ideas for dates 50% of the time. I'm still waiting to see how a man can pay me back. 2
oregon0011 Posted January 20, 2016 Posted January 20, 2016 Speak for yourself, man. I've gotten laid on plenty of free dates. Women don't decide to blow you because you spend money on them. If they like you, you don't have to open your wallet. Personally, I enjoy paying for things. My GF rarely has to pay for anything when I'm around. I take her out at least a few times a week. It's just money. You're dating the wrong guys. Find someone who appreciates you, and then spoil that guy. Leave the selfish ones alone. So she paid for you on the first date? Or the date was free? Big difference. Well it's nice you just enjoy paying for things. With no rhyme or reason. I guess your gf does not like to just pay for things and has a different view of money. Good luck with that over the long haul.
BluEyeL Posted January 20, 2016 Posted January 20, 2016 Personally I've always been the one to contribute more. Not only do I take turns paying, but I also go above and beyond to dress in sexy panties, dress up for dates, give lots and lots of blowjobs/handjobs/plenty of sex, cook for the guy, give massages, and I've been unfortunate enough to date guys who are penny pinching misers and are really selfish and thoughtless. I even come up with the ideas for dates 50% of the time. I'm still waiting to see how a man can pay me back. Only spoil a man AFTER he proved he deserves it. 1
dreamingoftigers Posted January 20, 2016 Posted January 20, 2016 So she paid for you on the first date? Or the date was free? Big difference. Well it's nice you just enjoy paying for things. With no rhyme or reason. I guess your gf does not like to just pay for things and has a different view of money. Good luck with that over the long haul. I've paid on first dates. I've done ditch or I've let a guy pay. It's honestly the LEAST important part of dating for me. It just really depends.
CrystalCastles Posted January 21, 2016 Posted January 21, 2016 With my GF, I really can't remember what we did on our first date, but I know it wasn't expensive. Either way, I definitely paid for it. She doesn't mind paying for things, but I have more expendable income, so I pay. Besides, like I already mentioned, I enjoy paying. Perhaps it's my old fashioned streak, but I like taking care of a woman. Thanks for the good wishes. I have been with her for over 2 years now. Very few bumps on the road so it's looking good. I always like reading these kinds of stories about how a man treats his lady well. It makes me feel hopeful I can find a good man too. 1
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